I am almost into my 3rd trimester and about 3 weeks ago I found out the father had been inappropriately txting another woman he met at work and another that he met on a dating site he had a profile on. I of course left. I am scared to ever go back to him even though he says he never did anything and had no intent of it going further. I am not stupid, and my heart is tangled up. Is it hormones that make me want to work it out or fear of being in this pregnancy alone? I don't want to make a mistake. My head is talking all the logic and my heart is doing the regular hurting. He says he wants the family and he loves me, but where was the effort when he had me and why wasn't I good enough then?