Ok, so I'd love some advice. I have an 11 year old, a 7 year old, and a 1 year old. We had managed to space the kids out so that the youngest one was a little more self-sufficient and at least out of diapers before we had another one. Now we are expecting our 4th in July, with our youngest just a year old. I'm a little worried about how I will handle having 2 babies at once. I will be having a c-section with this one, so that adds to my worry about taking care of the 1 year old, the new baby, and myself. My 11 year old is so awesome. She really helps me out with cleaning around the house, helping with the 1 year old, and she even knows how to cook a few dinner things. But she IS only 11, so I certainly don't want to put everything on her shoulders either. I know she will help, but I can't ask her to do everything. My hubby works 11-12 hours every day, so he wouldn't be home most of the time to help. It will be pretty much on me to do it all. Anyone out there have any advice on how to manage two babies at once? The 1 year old is on a pretty good schedule now, but I also worry about her regressing as well. I just want this to be as painless as possible for my family. We hadn't planned on having another one, but we are excited to add just one more blessing to our family. Any advice would be most helpful!