I really need some mommy support.. I know that because I had a baby just three days ago it could be baby blues,but honestly I feel very sad , and frustrated.. here's the thing I love my babies, all three. But I feel horrible that I feel the need to put my two older kids 3,2 in a headstart. My babies fathers mother constantly says that I'm just being lazy , that she had three young babies and was able to completely clean , make a full dinner and keep herself up. Mean while I'm waking up all hours of the night, taking care of the two babies one who is newly potty trained and very active and dose not really like to listen and I understand he's only two. My other baby is 3 and usually very obedient and calm,but since the new baby has been home he seems to be falling back into throwing fits and screaming. I know the main question every one might have is what is the father doing mean while. Well he likes to get his rest . Ha! He just lays down in boxers all day , if he sees or hears the kids doing anything he will sit there and yell if they do not respond he gets up and stomps and makes them cry. So he may think he is "helping" but no he is causing more stress. Also I have no contact with my family members,and his do help but its equal to his parenting and louder! Also his mother ,if feeding my kids she makes comments that HER feeding them is the ONLY way she is sure that they eat. If I yawn I'm lazy.yes mommycafe I have a lot of problems. No mommycafe I don't want petty I just want to know if I'm being a little crazy ,am I for some reason only trying to find bad things??.. and is wanting to put my kids in a headstart being selfish and lazy..
on Jun. 30, 2014 at 9:30 PM