He's nothing to me but a provider! ( Kinda long )
Ok I need to vent and hopefully get some advice. My daughter is struggling really bad right now and I really really need some help. She is 17yrs old almost 18 and has some issues with her bio dad. He has never been apart of her life yet she keeps him up on a pedestal and he seems to never come down even though he is in and out of her life. She wrote him an email today telling him exactly how she feels and where to sh*t in the woods. Ok that said, how do I make my hubby realize he is doing her NO good?? She wants a dad so bad she can taste it. They butt heads like no other. However she is 17 and acts like she is 12. She wont get a job,, has no desire to. She throws tantrums and carries on as if she is deserved the world. All she wants is a dad to love her, act like he loves her, and really truly care about her feelings. I have been blunt with hubby about this but with her attitude and the way she acts it makes it very hard for him to even be remotely nice to her on some days. I am at my wits end and ready to blow. I do not know what to do no more and my family gives me no help cuz my daughter is perfect in their eyes. She does no wrong. Every time hubby does something nice for her she is lovey with him but only when he buys her things any other time she says that my hubby is nothing to her but a provider. Please help... I treat his children as if they are my own. Why cant he do the same?