I'm wondering how other people feel about this. My fiancé and I have separate bank accounts. He makes quite a bit more money than I do but I get child support for my son from a previous marriage. Before we moved in together I used the child support to pay my mortgage which my ex husband knew and was fine with since he knows I take good care of my son and he doesn't want for anything. Now my fiancé thinks this is "our" money because I pay less bills because we love together. We have no joint accounts and pay no bills together. We have an agreement that was set up before we got engaged and moved in together. I do give him extra money when he needs it. It just irks me that he seems to feel entitled to it. Am I being selfish ?
on Jul. 21, 2014 at 8:20 PM