Quoting Jeymoret: So I've recently found out that I'm pregnant by an old flame. Everything was going good until I found out about the pregnancy. I find myself wondering if I should continue this pregnancy or not. Can some one help
Do you want to be a mother? to be a single mom? Do you have a stable support system? Probably tons of questions you are asking yourself right now, so be honest with you. Be forethinking as well.
I was raised by a single mom. She was amazing. I never realized how tough things must have been even though I lived it. And it was tough. But my mom is the strongest woman I know. She's the only person I ever believed in.
I wish you peace of mind. :)
How far along are you?
I can say personally, I would not abort. I would consider adoption but honestly, after 2 miscarriages, difficulty conceiving, and enjoying every minute of my pregnancies, I don't think I could do adoption either.
To me, kids are a blessing. Unfortunately, I cannot make the decision for you. You need to look deep into yourself and decide what is best for you, keeping in mind, no matter what you decide it will be a lifetime decision.
Good luck (((HUGS)))
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Then walk away from him, have your baby, and say you don't know who the father is (like someone suggested). You DON't want to have an abortion, and you have a support system? Don't let him bully you into ending your baby's life just because he doesn't want the child. Good luck, and I am going to pray for you.
Quoting Jeymoret: I just went for my first appt today I'm around 7weeks. He really wants me to get an abortion but I don't want to. I have a strong support system I just wish he would stop making this difficult for me. He makes it seem like I'm making the complete wrong decision for wanting to continue my pregnancy.
Take some time to think about what your belief system is and your personality type. If you believe that life begins at conception, you may have a hard time living with an abortion choice. Are you a a territorial person who likes to be in control? You may have a hard time accepting adoption as an option. Try to quiet all the external input and listen to what your inner voice is telling you.
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