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Kinda going of a recent post of someone in this group, but mine has a little twist. It happens to the best of us :(

Posted by on Feb. 15, 2017 at 11:09 AM
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In 2008 my now ex husband of three years at the time, found out he was cheating on me with over 8 men in the area we lived in, of course the next day I'd confronted him about the emails he left open. It was such a shocking find and never in a million years would I have thought he do something like this to are family. I trusted this man with everything within me and it was such a disappointment. We ended up getting counseling for this issue but every time we had a a session things were twisted and blamed on me. Three yrs passed by in 2009 we had a baby girl because something made me believe that maybe we had hope, but on Jan 11-2011 my best friend of 15 yrs stumbled upon a case of disc that were labeled family pics, lord what was revealed to me was anything but instead a disc FULL of nude photos of little boys " that I'd never seen ", so of course that day I, called my father to ask what should I, do with this disc because at that moment my mind was spinning and my heart didn't want to cause any other problems to happen, fuck this was already going to hurt my children and my family, but instead of my dad flying there to help me and be a support system " he said if you don't take it to the right authorities " I'll have you placed in jail!!!.. so I ended up taking it to my counselor at the time and what you know she called the cops. Instead of the judicial system being on my side and granting me custody of my two youngest, they favored my ex's side, because he had the most in money. Some time has passed and he ended up leaving his job and re locating back to MI, of course I, followed to be closer to my children but it's definitely heartbreaking being with out them along with being punished for something I, had no dealings with. So,e people ask why I, don't take him back to court for custody I, just don't have the money and even though I'd love to sue him and his family for the damage done I, fear what type of effect it would have on all my children while going through it all over again. I just figured I'd share my story with all of you and thank you for reading.

by on Feb. 15, 2017 at 11:09 AM
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momof337
by Stephanie on Feb. 15, 2017 at 11:26 AM
Oh my,I am so very sorry
Hottmomma607
by Trica on Feb. 15, 2017 at 11:32 AM
On wow.
((Hugs))
virginiamama71
by Carrie on Feb. 15, 2017 at 12:22 PM
Where did your best friend find the discs?
PaddyWhack
by Bronze Member on Feb. 15, 2017 at 12:24 PM

hugs

maureen813
by Member on Feb. 15, 2017 at 12:26 PM

So he was in possesion of child pornography and you lost custody of your children?

Bmat
by Emerald Member on Feb. 15, 2017 at 12:47 PM

Would it be possible to find a lawyer who would work with you (at low cost)? 

What an awful thing to happen. :(

Cenedra64
by Bronze Member on Feb. 15, 2017 at 1:14 PM
That is so messed up. I'm very sorry
sarahlawson84
by Member on Feb. 15, 2017 at 2:59 PM


Quoting maureen813:

So he was in possesion of child pornography and you lost custody of your children?

He was found not guilty by the court, but there was a lot of parts left out that would have sentenced him for life. But with the social services being involved she told me to stay back, so with it being an order I, complied doing what was told. And with the end result lost my youngest children.

sarahlawson84
by Member on Feb. 15, 2017 at 3:00 PM


Quoting virginiamama71: Where did your best friend find the discs?

Beside the computer in a disc case.

CP2017
by Member on Feb. 15, 2017 at 3:07 PM

Hugs

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