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Son wants girl shoes

Posted by on Apr. 16, 2018 at 5:20 PM
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My teenage son came to me today and asked me if we could go out and buy him a pair of flats for school and I don't know what to say to him what should I say
by on Apr. 16, 2018 at 5:20 PM
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lovingladyo4
by Member on Apr. 16, 2018 at 5:26 PM

You are the parent - you give him good choices - you set the boundaries - you use this as an opportunity

virginiamama71
by Carrie on Apr. 16, 2018 at 5:26 PM
Take him shopping for the shoes.
DaringNikki
by Member on Apr. 16, 2018 at 6:50 PM
Have your husband take him to buy shoes
AnnieArk
by Bronze Member on Apr. 16, 2018 at 6:53 PM
I wouldn't buy them for school.
Idkmyscreenname
by New Member on Apr. 16, 2018 at 6:54 PM
Buy them. Many normal, heterosexual people, dress ambiguous.
Momof2Stepof3
by Platinum Member on Apr. 16, 2018 at 6:58 PM

Take him shopping for the shoes. What is the issue?

Did he say why he wanted female shoes? 

My son wore a dress to school to show the school how sexist and stupid their rules are.

Now yearly the week of prom guys wears dresses to school to help fight sexist rules.

Quoting gps27: My teenage son came to me today and asked me if we could go out and buy him a pair of flats for school and I don't know what to say to him what should I say


Momof2Stepof3
by Platinum Member on Apr. 16, 2018 at 6:59 PM

Why? 

Is wearing female items going to make him catch the gays??? 

Is wearing female items going to make him catch the cross-dressing bug?

Quoting AnnieArk: I wouldn't buy them for school.


AnnieArk
by Bronze Member on Apr. 16, 2018 at 7:15 PM
Simply asking why would have been better than making unfounded accusations about my character and intelligence.

Quoting Momof2Stepof3:

Why? 

Is wearing female items going to make him catch the gays??? 

Is wearing female items going to make him catch the cross-dressing bug?

Quoting AnnieArk: I wouldn't buy them for school.

Momof2Stepof3
by Platinum Member on Apr. 16, 2018 at 7:22 PM

Defense much? 

I am asking why.

Nowhere did I make unfounded accusations of your character or intelligence. 


Quoting AnnieArk: Simply asking why would have been better than making unfounded accusations about my character and intelligence.


ZenLocs
by New Member on Apr. 16, 2018 at 7:29 PM
Why not just buy him the shoes?
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