I would like to get some thoughts/opinions on a problem I am having. My baby shower is planned for the end of this month (I am due may 3rd). My shower is going to be small close family/friend at a nice restaurant. My Friend just had a baby. Her baby daughter will be 3 months at the time of my shower (I am also the god-mother). She asked me if it was okay to bring her daughter to the shower, since she is nursing and said that she is having a problem finding the time to pump (she does not work either). I told her yes, because I was caught off guard when she asked me. Now after thinking about it more and more, I don't think that it is right for her to bring her. Not to be selfish or anything, but the day is suppose to be about my baby, not hers. You know that people will be oooing and ahhing over her daughter (thats what people do with babys). I am really bothered by this, I think her daughter is old enough that she can leave her for a couple of hours with her husband. Please don't think that I am being selfish, I am just really bothered by this and want to say something in a nice way to her. My friend is really consumed by her daughter and will not put her down or will not leave the house, which worries me too. I would love some thoughts on this or if I am wrong for thinking this, I can't even sleep!!
Thanks for any help!!
on Mar. 6, 2007 at 5:39 PM