My ex-boyfriend and the father of my youngest child, Dylan, just iced the cake as far as wanting me but not being able to have me. He always told me that if he couldn't have me than no one could, that our son would not grow up in a "conventional family", and that he would ruin my life if I chose not to be with him. Our "history" is long and includes Protective Orders and Restraining Orders, among other things.
His "MO" is that if things are too quite, happy, and peaceful in my life, he will be sure to stir it up. Usually, its just harrassment via text messaging and phone calls, but now it has gone way, way too far.
My kids are at the beach with Nana and Papa for the weekend. I sit here on Friday night and get a knock on my door. Who is it.... DCF, CPS Ageny for those of you who don't reside in Connecticut! The allegations were that there were 2 marks on Dylan, my 2 year old that looked like pinch marks and that I had/have substance abuse problems. I wanted to go into orbit, but stayed calm! The allegations only pertained to Dylan, age 2 and not my other son Matthew, age 7! I told her that I have NEVER used physical discipline with either one of my children. The "marks" that are being referenced are in fact bug bites that he scratched and actually are scabbed. In reference to the "substance abuse" I told the worker that I would do a drug test any day of the week!
So my question, finally, is what do I do? How do I get him to leave me alone and among others, stop making false allegations against me? I am a good mother that would Never do anything but love my children!