I joined ClubMom because i recently realized that I am all alone. I am a friend to some women but only when they need a friend. I have three kids, good kids so far, my oldest recently found out she is pregnant - she lives 900 miles away, my middle child is in college - here at the closest city, and my youngest went to live with his oldest sister so that he can 'have a life'. I live and work on a ranch 15 miles from the nearest city and I couldn't run him to and from practice (football) everytime he needed, and the bus got him home in time to go to bed. I have friends here on the ranch all the time, but I - for some reason- just barely noticed that they are all my husbands friends. I have not one single female friend. I talk to one of my sisters on yahoo messenger when she has a chance and everyday ( at least 5 times a day) to my middle child. I even have a myspace page that my kids set up to keep me informed of them. I enjoy ranch life even when I can barely move because i have been busy all day (some days I do nothing). Well, thats me!