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Several people have told me that I shouldn't worry so much about buying things for my son for Christmas because he is only 4 mo. They say it's silly because he won't even know the difference. It's really bothering me though because, yea he's young and all but I still want to celebrate his first Christmas! Plus, he's our first child and we're excited about it!
What do you mama's think I should do? What did you do for your LO's first Christmas?
Also, for those who agree I should get him a few things, suggestions??? What were things that your LO's got lots of use out of and enjoyed around 4-6 mo? And what do you put in a 4 mth old's stocking? lol
Thanks mamas!
I would do what you want to. It's your baby, It's your Christmas, It's your money....
I've heard that same thing on here and I think it's silly. It doesn't matter how old the child is or whether they will remember, it's still Christmas. You can put age appropriate toys and teething rings in the stocking. Maybe get a big fluffy bear for a gift. I got both my girls dolls their first Christmas and put them in their rooms.
You do what you want! We stayed small for DD's first. She got alot of clothes, diapers, and we stuffed her stocking with teethers and rattles.
I got my 3 month old a couple toys and teethers. I say do what you want, its your baby and your Christmas.
do what you want. This will be my sons firsts x-mas too, he will be 10 months, which is older but still too young to know a whole lot be we are going all out, we got him ornaments and his own little tree for his room and decorations for his room and everything, he tryed opening his firt present the other day :) Celebrate how you want to! Dont let people take away from your first x-mas with ur baby!
Happy Holidays!
My daughter was 4 1/2 months old last year and we bought her some clothes that she needed. We bought her high chair and her exersaucer because they were practical. You do what you want.......We also put teething rings and sippy cups and stuff like that in her stocking.
I think you should do what you want. I am in the same position only my daughter will be two months. As for the stocking...well maybe put little toys that he can play with like rattles and stuff like that. You can't really replace the candy and nuts. Good luck!
my first son was a month old at chritsmas and he we did just a stocking and things that he needed.. He did get stuff from my parents and inlaws, but I think it was mainly clothes and some toys for when he got older...

same here and my dd was almost 4 months on her first christmas
Quoting Jademom07:You do what you want! We stayed small for DD's first. She got alot of clothes, diapers, and we stuffed her stocking with teethers and rattles.

My daughter was 3 weeks old last christmas. We went to my parents house and they got her clothes and teethers and such. For when she was bigger. The also filled a stocking for her with similar small things and candy for me of course!
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