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I'm furious

Posted by on Jan. 27, 2009 at 10:05 AM
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Last week my sister and law and her deadbeat husband came to visit us.  He has been out of work since November...claims to be "looking" for a job...and refuses to get just any job, he wants a certain job making a certain amount of money.  My sister in law found out she is pregnant while she was here...and yet he still refuses to get a job.   He wants a boy scout job...whatever.


Well last night my husband was trying to use our computer and it wasn't working.  Well he then found a virus on it.  And when he did a search to see what was causing it, he found a porn website that had my sister in laws husbands email address on it.  ANd it wasn't like he "accidentally" stumbled on the website...he actually typed the name of the site into the drop down thing at the top..which means he knew exactly what he was doing, and then he even went back to it several times according to the history on our computer.  My husband got rid of the virus, but now I don't know what to do...IMO he should not be allowed to work with boy scouts because he is a pervert....(o and last week he went to the park with me and my kids and was taking pictures of kids creeping people out).....JMO..but he is a creep and a perv. 

Any suggestions?

boy n girl

Proud Wife to Jason since May 21, 2005

Mommy to Brodey Trenton and Sophie Cheyenne


by on Jan. 27, 2009 at 10:05 AM
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tes1proudmomma
by on Jan. 27, 2009 at 10:08 AM

Well at first I was going to say just because he looks at porn doesn't mean he is a pervert...

But, if he was taking pictures of children then I may think something like that...

I'm  not sure what to do, so good luck with whatever you do.

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ozade8
by on Jan. 27, 2009 at 10:10 AM

O I also meant to add, that in our house, we don't allow anyone to look at porn....just something we chose for our house..and we think its very disrespectful for someone else to come in to OUR house and use OUR computer for that....especially around my children.

Quoting tes1proudmomma:

Well at first I was going to say just because he looks at porn doesn't mean he is a pervert...

But, if he was taking pictures of children then I may think something like that...

I'm  not sure what to do, so good luck with whatever you do.


boy n girl

Proud Wife to Jason since May 21, 2005

Mommy to Brodey Trenton and Sophie Cheyenne


Ziggy.Stardust
by on Jan. 27, 2009 at 10:11 AM

Looking at porn in your personal time does not make you a perv or unfit to work with children IMO. As long as its not child pornography. I would be pissed about the virus and i cant believe he would look at porn on a computer that was not his. I wouldn't let him use it anymore.

houstonsucks
by on Jan. 27, 2009 at 10:13 AM

OMG!!!
First of all, paying Scout jobs are few and far between...
There are an abundance of volunteer ones for everyone... I help whenever I can, but I know that in our district only one man gets paid for his services... So you can tell your delisional "family" member that he's insane...
And second, the background check is extensive, so he'll probably fail, but on the off chance he does find an opening that hasn't been filled by a lifelong scout... Please go online or call your local council and fill them in on him!!!
I trust my son to these people as well as so many others...

We are all responsible for everyones children...
Act now!!!

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cmc76
by on Jan. 27, 2009 at 10:13 AM

I really hope he won't get the job he want if that kind of job would bring him in contact with children.

KYChica
by on Jan. 27, 2009 at 10:14 AM

Did her husband know that you all have this rule in your house about not looking at porn?

Not saying he's a wonderful guy or anything but looking @ porn doesn't make you a pervert or unfit to work around children. I watch porn , my hubby watches porn but neither of us would ever ever EVER do anything to our children or anyone else's.

ozade8
by on Jan. 27, 2009 at 10:57 AM

yes they know we have rules about our computer and what can and cannot be looked at on it. I'm glad many of you agree that he is a creep. And I never said that him looking  at porn made him a perv. I meant the taking pics of other peoples kids was sick, and that he should not have been looking at that on our computer

boy n girl

Proud Wife to Jason since May 21, 2005

Mommy to Brodey Trenton and Sophie Cheyenne


Jezzabelle718
by on Jan. 27, 2009 at 11:01 AM

meh...sounds like a moron...there's lots of them in this world. 

also, lots of people take pics of kids.  but he should ask permission.  just taking pics of kids doesn't mean anything.  maybe it means that he just really loves kids...not in the pervy way.

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