Then..her son (my bf)... his birthday is saturday, all he wanted was for some of his FRIENDS to get together... and since we are moving next week to alabama (900 miles away).. i thought it would be nice..so i organized all of it for him, and he still doesnt know (i dont think..haha)... anyways.. his mom told(yelled to me) me "well..im his MOTHER.. i deserve to be there!!! i WILL be there!!! It will be the last time ill be able to see 'the kids' for a while since you guys dont have any sense and are moving so far away" (mind you... his mother drives us both NUTS!! she has a drinking problem...)
So apparently she will be here to crash the BBQ(she treats her son like a 5 year old). And trying to tell her 'he just wants his FRIENDS there' didnt do anything! UGH!!!! Am i so horrible for trying to give him what he wants for his bday?? Am i wrong for being upset that she wants to tell us CONSTANTLy how to raise our son???
-sorry, i had to vent. Does anyone else have this problem??? any solutions??