Is it the South

[chrisathome]

Why is it so hard to get to know women in the south? I've been out for a year and I've tried my hardest to meet people but no one seems to want a great new friend!  we moved here forom up north Illinois to be exact.  I have know family here. My husband works all day and I'm always at home with the kids. I need some adult conversation.and my oldest daughter needs some friends. See we don't know many people here and I know my oldest tried of playing with mommy. I joined a church and my kids are the youngest in the church. There is no one for her to really play with. What do I need to do to meet mother with kids that are able to meet for some play dates. I've showed myself friendly, I've started conversation with complete strangers. I don't know what to do!!! I'm a stay at home mom and I need to get out. If you have any ideas please let me know. Anyone thats in my area, or if you have any ideas let me know. Is it the south/? Are southerns harder to get to know? LET ME KNOW!!!

[Paigenace]

I am a borned and breed southerner and always looking for new friends.  I can't speak for all southerners but we are sweet and love to get to know new people.
Paige

[KimmyShaw]

Really your having a hard time? I am a northerner also and always travel South and just find everyone so pleasant...annoyingly pleasant!

[mommy2trever]

it might just be where you liven b/c here it not like that with most people. Well where in the south do you live. that might be why i live inlouisaana been here forever and everyone pretty friendy. Like we all wave to each other even if you dont know each other kind of thing

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[ekholl]

Personally I think southerners are more friendly as a whole, but they have a terrible time accepting people that arent like them...i.e. northerners. I've lived in the south all my life and love it here. I know i have met most of my really good friends at church. I would just keep trying. you'll find someone friendly soon I'm sure.

[LondonAsMommy]

I've lived in the South my whole life (Wilmington, NC) and I would think its the exact opposite.  When we moved in to our new house 2 months ago, our neighbors all brought us housewarming gifts, and one brought us a list of a list of all the neighbors names, addresses and phone numbers.  Like I said, I've never lived up north, but weveryone around here is pretty friendly.  Search for a Cafemom group in your area, and if they don't have one, maybe you could start one up.  That may be a good way to meet other moms.  Good Luck!!!

 

[Angiechls]

I was born and raised in the south and i can't speak for anyone else but i'm a nice person and talk to stranger so i can get to know them.  I live out in a hicktown in florida and yes some southerns are stuck up and only stick to people that they grew up with..a lot of clicks out here.  but you just have to be patient and keep trying.  Try a different church in your area.

Angie

"The world wouldn't be funny without smartasses"

[ebgs123198]

Have you tried checking the library for clubs and book readings for kids or a community center?  Those places usually have groups like that.  Don't feel bad - where we used to live my daughters best friends were alot younger than her and 1 didn't even speak english and my daughter didn't speak spanish (she likes french for some reason).  Also check with schools around your neighbor hood.  Good luck to you.

  Wendi

[VinniesMama]

Born and raised in the Deep south baby....and I'm also in your situation....moved near Memphis after katrina and since I'm a stay at home mom....I don't have the oppertunity to make friends......have you tried to make friends with felid trip moms with your oldest in school?

[nemiller]

I've lived all over the country (Navy brat), but I was born in the South and lived there the most (8 of my 20 years) and that's where I am most comfortable.  I don't know exactly where you live, but most places, it's really easy to meet people in the South.  It's just tough meeting new friends, and that's true no matter where you live.  I would suggest finding a church or playgroup.  That way, you'll be in low-pressure situations where you can meet women who are similar to you.  That's just what I would do, anyway.

[foofoomommy]

I've always found that southerners were really nice and approachable. Sorry you have not encountered that. I was born in W.Va. and raised in KY. I hope you don't hold it against those of us who are friendly!!!!