My baby is driving me crazy!

[anikahaynes1]

OMG I never thought Id feel this way, and I am so ashamed of it, and before anyone goes and starts anything, I am taking my anti depressants(wellbutrin) so whatever...

Anyway she is 2 weeks old today and I seriously just feel like I can't take it any more...I can't figure my child out either...she doesn't do anything consistantly, like she never eats at certian time interviles like 2-3 or 4 hours, I never know how much formula to prepare for her, she can and does eat 6 oz at a time (yes I consulted the nurse about this) she isn't spitting up or unhappy so what gives...

She is stressing me out beyond belief and it only gets worse at night...last night I had to make my poor husband get up (i am a sahm) and take care of the baby because i had only gotten 2 hours of sleep last night...thankfully more after hubby took over....but oh my god, when will things fall into place, if things don't start straightening out soon I seriously think I am going to lose it all together.....why was I so lucky to get such a difficult child?

[nemiller]

i felt the same way for the first two months of my son's life.  i think that as time goes on, you'll get more sleep and your baby will settle into her own routine.  hang in there, mama!  it's stressful having a new baby at home.

[kenziesmom04]

i am sorry hun hope thanks get better

[momofboysgirls]

Does your doctor know how you feel? If not id let him/her know. You might have postpartum depression and your antidepressent might not be the right one. Switch to a new one or higher dosage. Youre not a bad mom. We all have times like this. Hang in there. 

[DelennDax]

I am sorry mama.  All I can say is, it will get better.  I know my DS does drive me nuts, he is almost a year old.  Good Luck. 

[jenny53669]

aww hun i feel ya!! you are not alone, as for people that wanna bash ya they must have that perfect life where nothing goes wrong. all 3 of my kids where that way...NEVER HAPPY!! its very hard, but it does get easier. it might take a bit but you LO will chill out. she is only 2 weeks old...i dont think any baby is on a schedule that early. you need a break 2 so its ok 2 depend on others. if you need/wanna talk im here for ya... 

[Loveof2]

You shouldnt feel ashamed i think a lot of mother go through it.  I have 7 month old twins and believe me i know its stressful but it will get better.  My daughter still gets up to eat atleast once a night but its not near as much as it used to be.  If you have someone that can watch the baby for a little during the day or something take a break.  i think thats the most important thing.  take alittle time and get yourself back together even if you just sleep for a few hours.  it will get better!!

[PurpleNurples]

Oh no honey, I know how you feel.  This WILL get better!  I promise. Your life has just changed dramatically.  It's hard, and it's scary!  I always say that I would be more than willing to have a few more if I could just give birth to a six month old.  You are sleep deprived, and hormonal.  Keep up with the Wellbutrin, and maybe ask for some antianxiety to go along with it!  PM me anytime you need to cry, or scream!

[anikahaynes1]

Thanks everyone for the replies...I haven't talked to my dr yet, Ive been taking the wellbutrin throughout my pregnancy so i think my dr just assumes i am still taking it. I will see here again on the 29th...

I wish so badly that I had a support system here but I dont. Our families live about 3 hours away and unfortuntaly can't keep taking time off...I am going home for almost 2 months come may (hubby is army and has some training to do) so that will be a good break, but the first months are so hard and I have no one around here...I know the bases have a lot of resources but he is recruiting right now and we are in the middle of a town no where near a base! :(

Anyway thank you again! :)

[25beengoodtome]

 You cwertainly have your hands full - with a baby that is strong-willed, and not shy about speaking up! Believe me, not too long, you'll be missing these days of her needing your every minute.  I know it doesn't seem possible right now. She could be picking up some stress off you, so you should try singing silly songs to her. "Mommy's over here, gonna get the milk and bottle, Where's mommy's little girl?I'm gonna give her a hug and some kisses." Then pick her up, and kiss her neck and cheeks.

Give it a try while you're alone with your baby, it'll become fun, and your baby will relax and respond happily. You gotta create the fun memories in your lives.

[anikahaynes1]

I am never alone with the baby, my 3 year old daughter is always around, and I think I am feeling extra tense because I want to spend time with her and our youngest needs all my arms all the time...it just makes me so sad that i can't play with our oldest...anyway thanks for the advice i'll have to try it some time if i ever get a moment alone...

Quoting 25beengoodtome:

 You cwertainly have your hands full - with a baby that is strong-willed, and not shy about speaking up! Believe me, not too long, you'll be missing these days of her needing your every minute.  I know it doesn't seem possible right now. She could be picking up some stress off you, so you should try singing silly songs to her. "Mommy's over here, gonna get the milk and bottle, Where's mommy's little girl?I'm gonna give her a hug and some kisses." Then pick her up, and kiss her neck and cheeks.

Give it a try while you're alone with your baby, it'll become fun, and your baby will relax and respond happily. You gotta create the fun memories in your lives.