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Am I just being selfish?

Posted by on Apr. 8, 2009 at 11:19 AM
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 I understand that we need to work as hard as possible for our business to be successful, but on the other hand how can we say we aren't a sucessful business when we made 1/4 of a million dollars last year?  We have been working so much that I feel like I am no longer his wife just his office manager.  I told him this last night and he said nothing, just went to sleep.  I know that it is hard to run a business and find time for everything else especially when we are so busy all the time, but I need some time with my DH.  We both make sure we are making time for the children and doing things with them, but honestly I NO LONGER FEEL LIKE HIS WIFE.  Am I just being selfish???

Dona Carpenter
Mommy to Chantel and Cordell
Wife to Eric 10.24.02
**To a child LOVE is spelled T-I-M-E

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lovelily79
by on Apr. 8, 2009 at 11:21 AM

no h needs to make time for you both to connect with eachother. A marriage doesn't involve just one person




 





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theskillfactor
by on Apr. 8, 2009 at 11:21 AM

Maybe try and talk about it when he isn't ready for bed. Like right after the kiddos go down, and you have some sort of alone time. And no, it isn't selfish.

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