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my friend has a 2 yr old, and does it all the time, I think she needs to grow up personally..I don't think its appropriate, around your kids or not...
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I'm not bashing people who smoke pot, I'm just curious on how many actually do smoke it. The only people I said anything negative about, were the ones who do it when their kids are present...just to clarify
I never have and good chance never will. I don't want it around my kids or me. This is a huge deal between me and my hubby. He sees nothing wrong with it i do.
If you dont' mind my asking, what do you see wrong with it??
Quoting mommyof11050307:
I never have and good chance never will. I don't want it around my kids or me. This is a huge deal between me and my hubby. He sees nothing wrong with it i do.

ooohhh.. it's people like her that give pot a bad name. Shame on her. I'm sure if she's got the sense that God gave a rock she knows she shouldn't smoke it around her kids..
hmm. And she thinks nothing is wrong with it?? Have you told her the way she is with it? Maybe she doesnt' realize what she is doing.
Quoting LuvinMyBoynGirl:
she smokes it during the day, while her daughter is going in and out of the living room where she' doing it, she is TOTALLY lazy, matter of fact she has me clean her house once a week, and she smokes it all day long...that's why I think she needs to grow up lol..but I agree with what you said about it though
Quoting HeatherMae55:
Pot is awesome... There are many misconceptions about pot smokers.. Sure it's illegal (although, the reason it's illegal should be enough to make it legal), but of those who chastise pot smokers, they're the same ones drinking and driving, abusing RX drugs, littering, etc.
If she is smoking it while the kids are asleep, but she is still a good Mom, then what's the big deal? Is she abusing her kids? Smoking it all day? Is she lazy? Just a bad mom??
If you chose no for all of the above, then what's the prob. It's just like sitting down at the end of the day and having a beer or two.



I have no use for it. I do not drink alcohol either. Hell I do not even use caffeine of any kind. I do not need any substance to help me relax, wake up, chill out, etc. I think people should learn how to cope with stress and their feelings instead of using substances.

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I don't have a problem with it for medical use. But both my hubby and my sister have had pass drug use and it started out with pot and then when onto other harder drugs. So in order to make sure it doesn't happen again i don't want any type of drug around my family.
Quoting HeatherMae55:If you dont' mind my asking, what do you see wrong with it??
Quoting mommyof11050307:
I never have and good chance never will. I don't want it around my kids or me. This is a huge deal between me and my hubby. He sees nothing wrong with it i do.
I have, she says its her life, and that her daughter is fed and taken care of and for me not to worry about it..this may sound bad, but her daughter is 2 and 48 pounds, I told my friend that all of that contact high, is giving her daughter the munchies, and if she doesn't stop, she's going to get major health problems
Quoting HeatherMae55:
ooohhh.. it's people like her that give pot a bad name. Shame on her. I'm sure if she's got the sense that God gave a rock she knows she shouldn't smoke it around her kids..
hmm. And she thinks nothing is wrong with it?? Have you told her the way she is with it? Maybe she doesnt' realize what she is doing.
Quoting LuvinMyBoynGirl:
she smokes it during the day, while her daughter is going in and out of the living room where she' doing it, she is TOTALLY lazy, matter of fact she has me clean her house once a week, and she smokes it all day long...that's why I think she needs to grow up lol..but I agree with what you said about it though
Quoting HeatherMae55:
Pot is awesome... There are many misconceptions about pot smokers.. Sure it's illegal (although, the reason it's illegal should be enough to make it legal), but of those who chastise pot smokers, they're the same ones drinking and driving, abusing RX drugs, littering, etc.
If she is smoking it while the kids are asleep, but she is still a good Mom, then what's the big deal? Is she abusing her kids? Smoking it all day? Is she lazy? Just a bad mom??
If you chose no for all of the above, then what's the prob. It's just like sitting down at the end of the day and having a beer or two.
I did when I was a kid.. then I grew up and became a mom. For me personally... smoking pot is against the law and I dont want to do anything that will jeopardize my children and their happiness.... Drugs are illegal... get caught and get your kids taken away.. its not worth the risk for me... not in a second. I am not saying that everyone that gets caught loses their kids but it DOES happen and I am just not willing to take that chance. AND I dont want to set that kind of example for my kids. No matter what you think about pot being harmless and it being stupid its against the law.. it still is and what kind of example would I be to my kid if I did things that are against the law for fun?? I want him to follow my rules.. that means I follow the rules of my government... plain and simple.
OMG im sorry i hate when people do this. But i think CPS needs to get involed because that is not normal for a 2 year old to be like that. She can ruin her daughters health if she keeps doing this.
Quoting LuvinMyBoynGirl:I have, she says its her life, and that her daughter is fed and taken care of and for me not to worry about it..this may sound bad, but her daughter is 2 and 48 pounds, I told my friend that all of that contact high, is giving her daughter the munchies, and if she doesn't stop, she's going to get major health problems
its rediculous I know...she's in size 5t clothing, my daughter is 2 months older than hers, and is still in 2ts sometimes 3t...and only weighs 29 poiunds
Quoting mommyof11050307:
OMG im sorry i hate when people do this. But i think CPS needs to get involed because that is not normal for a 2 year old to be like that. She can ruin her daughters health if she keeps doing this.
Quoting LuvinMyBoynGirl:
I have, she says its her life, and that her daughter is fed and taken care of and for me not to worry about it..this may sound bad, but her daughter is 2 and 48 pounds, I told my friend that all of that contact high, is giving her daughter the munchies, and if she doesn't stop, she's going to get major health problems
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