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We talked to the specialist (for those of you that have been reading about the twins)

Posted by on May. 24, 2009 at 4:27 PM
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I realized I hadn't updated and all of you have been so sweet I am sorry.

Well I did talk to her and she was very nice and very helpful. Basically since they were already high risk twins she feels that right now we need to be concerned with getting them much closer to term..which I understand....(and then I find out I am a week behind what I thought but anyway)

her suggestion was to concentrate on the twin issues and deal with the other things once we get to a point where we know Scarlett/Dorian will be born alive.

 and it makes sense...Bryan still has a few questions which I am happy about he seems to be getting more involved...then the whole bleeding thing yesterday seemed to shake him out of whatever he was going through(that is whole other post though...you would not believe what he told me on thrusday).

So at this point I am hoping for the best and planning for the worst...we (really I ) have decided how we will handle it if Scarlett/Dorian is born alive and then passes away.

And I know it sonds morbid but I just can't bury my baby in New Mexico with no family around..so we will have him/her cremated and when we can afford to go back home we will have memorial service for friends and family...I haven't decided what I will do with the remains...I was acutally proud of myself that I go that far with what to do...

Now I just need to figure out how to get the rest of the family, especially Roman and Asia through all of this....not matter what happens....

My goal now is to stay pregnant and keep both babies alive until 30 weeks..still very early I know..but I feel like if I can get them at least that far they will have a chance..

So I am managing....however I will be asking for prozac once the babies get here...sounds selfish I know but I don't even care...

Bryan's High School Sweetheart in love (for 15 years)  


Mommy to Asiateen girl and Roman american football



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SkysMom3808
by on May. 24, 2009 at 4:32 PM

My prayers are with you and your family!  

darcibeisheim
by Silver Member on May. 24, 2009 at 5:45 PM

Hugs!! And prayers!!


ForeverMeme
by on May. 24, 2009 at 5:57 PM

 God bless your family and those twins. You are such a strong person.

JPandMommy
by on May. 24, 2009 at 5:57 PM

Keeping you and the babies in my thoughts and prayers.  

Trinity0820
by on May. 24, 2009 at 7:29 PM

I'm sorry, and hope things get better,  

ShadowLark
by on May. 24, 2009 at 7:32 PM

My prayers are with you.  What week are you?

ebbierowe
by on May. 24, 2009 at 10:24 PM

thank you...and thank all of you for you kind words....

I am 13 weeks and some days......

Quoting ShadowLark:

My prayers are with you.  What week are you?


Bryan's High School Sweetheart in love (for 15 years)  


Mommy to Asiateen girl and Roman american football



Tummy Trouble??? http://www.cafemom.com/group/85015

laurajo84
by on May. 24, 2009 at 10:27 PM
You all will definitely be in my prayers! Oh, and the prozac thing, I do not blame you one bit, hon. There is nothing wrong with getting help when you need it, and if anyone tries to tell you differently, then there is something wrong with them. It's not selfish! You're responsible for keeping your family happy and healthy, so you have to be happy and healthy too!!!! Big hugs!!
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