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My Fiance hit me in the face last night :*(

Posted by on Jul. 2, 2009 at 7:04 PM
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My Fiance hit me in the face last night and i dont know what to do about it.  I mean i could leave but i have nowhere to go, no money, no job, and my son.  I never thought in my WILDEST dreams that he would ever hit me!  Then through text i found out he didnt know he hit me, he is very sorry but i dont even know what to think at this point... im kinda scared to see him in person now.  So mentally and physically hurt ... just dont know what to do... any ideas would be helpful.

Posted by on Jul. 2, 2009 at 7:04 PM
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MOM22QTS
by on Jul. 2, 2009 at 7:05 PM

how does he not know he hit yoU? 

Pinkmankie
by Kelly on Jul. 2, 2009 at 7:06 PM

My thought exactly.

Quoting MOM22QTS:

how does he not know he hit yoU? 


 

wsv777
by Silver Member on Jul. 2, 2009 at 7:06 PM

How did he not know he hit you in the face??

MommySayz
by on Jul. 2, 2009 at 7:06 PM

call your local family services offices, make an appointment, go get some assistance, and emergency housing, it will suck, but theres ALWAYS options in that situation.

OR

stick it out, get some counselling for both of you and start looking for a job and making better solutions for yourself jic things go bad again.

either way its going to be hard.

but i suggest you start finding a better way to take care of yourself and your LO so you dont feel so trapped.

good luck.


MommyRivera
by on Jul. 2, 2009 at 7:07 PM

What do you mean he didn't KNOW he hit you? If he hits you once, he will probably hit you again. You need to get yourself and your son out of there. Go to a shelter if you need to. Your son doesn't need to see any of that! 

ashnevlex
by on Jul. 2, 2009 at 7:07 PM

This.

Quoting MOM22QTS:

how does he not know he hit yoU? 


crystal0126
by Member on Jul. 2, 2009 at 7:07 PM

Wondering this myself.

Quoting MOM22QTS:

how does he not know he hit yoU? 


pookybear94
by on Jul. 2, 2009 at 7:07 PM

What did he black out? How could he not know he was hitting you.?

LaciR
by on Jul. 2, 2009 at 7:07 PM

Women's shelter. PLEASE CALL ONE NOW. You need to leave and at least get on your own two feet. Being dependent on an abuser is not fair to YOU or your kids. Please. I beg you now, call a women's shelter to come and get you.


TamaraAnn888
by on Jul. 2, 2009 at 7:07 PM

Mine as well!

Quoting Pinkmankie:

My thought exactly.

Quoting MOM22QTS:

how does he not know he hit yoU? 

 


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