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My Fiance hit me in the face last night :*(

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on Jul. 2, 2009 at 7:04 PM

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My Fiance hit me in the face last night and i dont know what to do about it.  I mean i could leave but i have nowhere to go, no money, no job, and my son.  I never thought in my WILDEST dreams that he would ever hit me!  Then through text i found out he didnt know he hit me, he is very sorry but i dont even know what to think at this point... im kinda scared to see him in person now.  So mentally and physically hurt ... just dont know what to do... any ideas would be helpful.

Written by on Jul. 2, 2009 at 7:04 PM

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  • MOM22QTS
  • by on Jul. 2, 2009 at 7:05 PM
  • how does he not know he hit yoU? 

  • Pinkmankie
  • by on Jul. 2, 2009 at 7:06 PM
  • My thought exactly.

    Quoting MOM22QTS:

    how does he not know he hit yoU? 


     

  • wsv777
  • by on Jul. 2, 2009 at 7:06 PM
  • How did he not know he hit you in the face??

  • MommySayz
  • by on Jul. 2, 2009 at 7:06 PM
  • call your local family services offices, make an appointment, go get some assistance, and emergency housing, it will suck, but theres ALWAYS options in that situation.

    OR

    stick it out, get some counselling for both of you and start looking for a job and making better solutions for yourself jic things go bad again.

    either way its going to be hard.

    but i suggest you start finding a better way to take care of yourself and your LO so you dont feel so trapped.

    good luck.


  • MommyRivera
  • by on Jul. 2, 2009 at 7:07 PM
  • What do you mean he didn't KNOW he hit you? If he hits you once, he will probably hit you again. You need to get yourself and your son out of there. Go to a shelter if you need to. Your son doesn't need to see any of that! 

  • ashnevlex
  • by on Jul. 2, 2009 at 7:07 PM
  • This.

    Quoting MOM22QTS:

    how does he not know he hit yoU? 


  • crystal0126
  • by on Jul. 2, 2009 at 7:07 PM
  • Wondering this myself.

    Quoting MOM22QTS:

    how does he not know he hit yoU? 


  • pookybear94
  • by on Jul. 2, 2009 at 7:07 PM
  • What did he black out? How could he not know he was hitting you.?

  • LaciR
  • by on Jul. 2, 2009 at 7:07 PM
  • Women's shelter. PLEASE CALL ONE NOW. You need to leave and at least get on your own two feet. Being dependent on an abuser is not fair to YOU or your kids. Please. I beg you now, call a women's shelter to come and get you.


  • TamaraAnn888
  • by on Jul. 2, 2009 at 7:07 PM
  • Mine as well!

    Quoting Pinkmankie:

    My thought exactly.

    Quoting MOM22QTS:

    how does he not know he hit yoU? 

     


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