My Fiance hit me in the face last night :*(

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  • Earth-Angel
  on Jul. 4, 2009 at 4:19 AM

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  Quoting MOM22QTS:
  
  

  how does he not know he hit yoU? 

  
  

  
  

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  • rocklovinggirl
  on Jul. 4, 2009 at 4:32 AM

• If you don't think he would do it again at least get yourself prepared in case he does it again (i am VERY sure he will)... get you some skills aquired where you can get a job easier, get someone who will help you go somewhere if you need to move out, etc.
  Even if he only did it when he was drunk, I am sure he plans on drinking again... please get yourself prepared or get out of there now!!

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  • Mrs.Scream
  on Jul. 4, 2009 at 4:38 AM

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  Quoting ashnevlex:
  
  

  
  

  Quoting YoursTruelyXD:
  
  

   He was soooooo drunk last night, that he might have blacked out but still there is no reason to hit anybody.

  If he'll hit you drunk then he'll eventually hit you sober. All abusers apologize at first. Then once they realize that you're weak and will stay there and keep taking it and taking it and not leave or do anything about it, they'll just start blaming you for it, saying it's your own fault, you shouldn't have done xyz because you knew it would piss them off. Leave. Now. Don't stick around like some pp said to see if it gets worse. That's the worst advice I've ever heard.  There's places you can go to temporarily. Hotels, friends houses, family, shelters, a church. Go ANYWHERE.
  

  This is so true and I found this out the hard way....  Leave before it's to late....
  

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  • squadiwife
  on Jul. 4, 2009 at 4:40 AM

• Go to a domestic violence shelter. Do you want your son growing up around that. If you stay your son should be taken into CPS care.x

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  • CarlaD
  on Jul. 4, 2009 at 4:42 AM

• Being drunk is no excuse.  Period.  In fact, a violent drunk is possibly scarier than a sober violent person.  Lack of control is an issue, and drinking makes it worse.  Get out.  Call  shelter, call a church, whatever you have to do.  That is not safe and you owe it to yourself and your son to get out of there.  I have been there.  I've been hit..it led to being beaten..and then it led to worse.  I am lucky to be here to warn you.  Go.  Find a way and go.
  

  
  

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