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Do you agree with Polygamy (would you share your husband)

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4mom247

on Jul. 3, 2009 at 2:27 AM

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I have seen alot of documentaries lately and I honestly do not agree with it and was wondering about others opinions on it.

I found some videos on it.

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4mom247

on Jul. 3, 2009 at 2:27 AM

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amourepropre

on Jul. 3, 2009 at 2:28 AM

No and noooooooooo.

Susanjdv861

Silver Member on Jul. 3, 2009 at 2:29 AM

i don't have a problem if other people want to do this. but its just not something that i could ever do. i could never share my husband like that. but if others can and are happy with it then i see no problems with that.

HeatherMae55

on Jul. 3, 2009 at 2:31 AM

I've seen a few things on it.

If I found the right person I'd probably share my husband, of course he might have to share her with me too!!

Whatever works for a relationship as long as they are all consenting adults and no one is getting hurt.

I personally think it would be great to have so many people to love and who love you back..

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4mom247

Bronze Member on Jul. 3, 2009 at 2:32 AM

I understand that you dont mind what others do,but what if you had a daughter who ended up being drawn to that lifestyle when she was older,would you try to talk her out of it ?

Quoting Susanjdv861:

i don't have a problem if other people want to do this. but its just not something that i could ever do. i could never share my husband like that. but if others can and are happy with it then i see no problems with that.

lovemymarine306

on Jul. 3, 2009 at 2:33 AM

no, but i also wasn't raised to believe it was ok or normal. i might have a different opinion if that was the case.

squadiwife

on Jul. 3, 2009 at 2:33 AM

No, I find it disgusting!!!!!

mommy2isabella

on Jul. 3, 2009 at 2:35 AM

Nope. Not for me.

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mrsjedwards

on Jul. 3, 2009 at 2:36 AM

if they pay enough!!

bahha no im kidding, no way. hubby mentioned a 3some a while back and i told him not unless he wants some poor girl to lose some teeth even if i said yes to the whole thing. cant watch another woman touch my husband, id end up in jail and remember later i agreed to it lol

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Della03

Silver Member on Jul. 3, 2009 at 2:38 AM

NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Its just WRONG!

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cassie210

Silver Member on Jul. 3, 2009 at 2:39 AM

I know what you mean. We're talking to a gf about moving down here as a possibe third. She's been in our lives since I was pregnant with our son who would have been 3 now. And yes, she and I ar both bi and we get along great.

Quoting HeatherMae55:

I've seen a few things on it.

If I found the right person I'd probably share my husband, of course he might have to share her with me too!!

Whatever works for a relationship as long as they are all consenting adults and no one is getting hurt.

I personally think it would be great to have so many people to love and who love you back..

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Without her, life would be calm,
And yet, lack all meaning." Joscelin Verreuil consort to Phedre no Delaunay de Montreve "Kushiel's Justice" by Jacqueline Carey