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I have seen alot of documentaries lately and I honestly do not agree with it and was wondering about others opinions on it.
I found some videos on it.

i don't have a problem if other people want to do this. but its just not something that i could ever do. i could never share my husband like that. but if others can and are happy with it then i see no problems with that.
I've seen a few things on it.
If I found the right person I'd probably share my husband, of course he might have to share her with me too!!
Whatever works for a relationship as long as they are all consenting adults and no one is getting hurt.
I personally think it would be great to have so many people to love and who love you back..
I understand that you dont mind what others do,but what if you had a daughter who ended up being drawn to that lifestyle when she was older,would you try to talk her out of it ?
Quoting Susanjdv861:
i don't have a problem if other people want to do this. but its just not something that i could ever do. i could never share my husband like that. but if others can and are happy with it then i see no problems with that.

no, but i also wasn't raised to believe it was ok or normal. i might have a different opinion if that was the case.
Nope. Not for me.
*Happily married to Erik and proud mommy of a toddler and an infant* Isabella and Camden*
21 and on my 2nd marriage. not ashamed. SAHW, i cook i clean i keep my man happy. soon to be SAHM as well. first baby is due AUG 20. first wedding anniversary SEPT 14. support divorce when its needed. dont cheat, dont lie, dont disrespect. very opinionated but at the same time very open minded. married couples argue. its normal. dont love obama. dont hate obama. support the war (mostly the men and women fighting it). i live my life. your opinion/judgment/approval isnt needed.
I know what you mean. We're talking to a gf about moving down here as a possibe third. She's been in our lives since I was pregnant with our son who would have been 3 now. And yes, she and I ar both bi and we get along great.
Quoting HeatherMae55:I've seen a few things on it.
If I found the right person I'd probably share my husband, of course he might have to share her with me too!!
Whatever works for a relationship as long as they are all consenting adults and no one is getting hurt.
I personally think it would be great to have so many people to love and who love you back..
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