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I have seen alot of documentaries lately and I honestly do not agree with it and was wondering about others opinions on it.
I found some videos on it.

What other people do behind closed doors is their own buisness. As for me and my hubby? HE is MINE. I am his. I didn't get married to get someone else in the relationship... Hold lemme go ask him what he thinks... "Honey, do you want me to share you with other girls?" Hold on, lemme turn this around.... "Honey, do you wanna share me with other guys?" I think I'm gonna hear a resounding...HELL NO. To each his own, but I'm jealous and crazy... so there's no way I would share.

Haha..I love this response...
Quoting NadiasMommy427:
Hell no. I swear the things that some white people do is just crazy. It's a sin.
Thanks for posting all this though! It is very intersting
But it just disgusts me now....
Quoting 4mom247:
Thats why I posted them,not necessarily to turn people against it,but so they could get a little info from those who live/lived it and then make a judgement call.
Quoting averiensmommy07:
Polygamy never seemed like a bad thing to me
But after watching those videos it makes me sick to my stomach to think that people live their lives like that.

I wanted to try to get info on both sides,that way it wouldnt really be a bias post,you know trying to turn people against it.
Quoting averiensmommy07:
Thanks for posting all this though! It is very intersting
But it just disgusts me now....
Quoting 4mom247:
Thats why I posted them,not necessarily to turn people against it,but so they could get a little info from those who live/lived it and then make a judgement call.
Quoting averiensmommy07:
Polygamy never seemed like a bad thing to me
But after watching those videos it makes me sick to my stomach to think that people live their lives like that.

I wanted to say I'm glad you found something from the wives' point of view on a normal Polygamist family. Things can be normal and even with fewer kids be healthy and happy.
Quoting 4mom247:I wanted to try to get info on both sides,that way it wouldnt really be a bias post,you know trying to turn people against it.
Quoting averiensmommy07:
Thanks for posting all this though! It is very intersting
But it just disgusts me now....
Quoting 4mom247:
Thats why I posted them,not necessarily to turn people against it,but so they could get a little info from those who live/lived it and then make a judgement call.
Quoting averiensmommy07:
Polygamy never seemed like a bad thing to me
But after watching those videos it makes me sick to my stomach to think that people live their lives like that.
I don't care what other adults do in their relationships. As long as the are adults...and consenting it is not my business.
But for me...no it would not work.
No and no.It's not fair to women to be loyal to husband and share him with others and not get the same loyalty in return.
Sahm of 3 wonderful kids!![]()
As long as everyone is a consenting adult, I really don't understand why it's ANYONE'S business.
Would I live that lifestyle? No.

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