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Do you agree with Polygamy (would you share your husband)

4mom247

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on Jul. 3, 2009 at 2:27 AM

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 I have seen alot of documentaries lately and I honestly do not agree with it and was wondering about others opinions on it.

I found some videos on it.

Written by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 2:27 AM

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  • CallieLynsMommy
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 12:38 AM
  • I agree!

    Quoting Susanjdv861:

    i don't have a problem if other people want to do this. but its just not something that i could ever do. i could never share my husband like that. but if others can and are happy with it then i see no problems with that.


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  • adri_nevarez
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 12:38 AM
  • I could never do it.  I am too jealous!  However, I believe that everyone has a choice, and as long as no one is forced into something they are not comfortable with, then their choices are fine with me!  I wouldn't want someone knocking my lifestyle and just because here in the US the norm is one man and one woman does not mean that everyone feels that way.  I respect everyone's opinions on marriage whether it me one man and one woman, two men, two women, or one man and many women. 

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  • tigger-mommy
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 12:42 AM

  • Quoting mrsjedwards:

    if they pay enough!!


    bahha no im kidding, no way. hubby mentioned a 3some a while back and i told him not unless he wants some poor girl to lose some teeth even if i said yes to the whole thing. cant watch another woman touch my husband, id end up in jail and remember later i agreed to it lol



    AMEN! def not for me!

  • Hybrid
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 12:44 AM
  • I don't have to agree, it isn't my right to judge.

    Polygamy has no place in my marriage! I wouldn't share my husband, I couldn't! However a monogamous relationship is what makes our marriage work, not every ones marriage is like mine nor are their core values. Because of such, I am no one to judge.  I just wouldn't be in a plural marriage.


  • KareemsMami
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 12:44 AM
  • Hell to the no. Someone would die. I'm not about to do that shit and then come back on here with a post about how he did it and got her pregnant blah blah. Pfft. He's mine and mine ALONE.


  • imamombygrace
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 12:44 AM
  • Personally, no I do agree with polygamy.  Does it bother me if someone else make that choice for their life?  Nope..as long as it is between two consenting adults.

    A good book that gives an in depth look to someone that was once in the FLDS is "Shattered dreams"...By: Irene Spencer.  I could not put that book down and read it in a matter of a couple of days.

    I love studyingdifferent Faiths and one I studied on last year was the FLDS...not saying they are the only faiths or people that practice polygamy this day and age. 

  • DejaVooDoo
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 12:45 AM
  • I really don't care if another person wants a relationship like this.  I personally could never do it though.  I refuse to share.

  • lilyNnannysmom
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 12:55 AM
  • i fit int the catagory of "not playing well with others". i'm crazy jelous and that totally would fly with me




  • abbynzachsmommy
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 12:57 AM
  • Oh HECK no!!! Marraige is to be between ONE man and ONE woman. There is no sharing..sorry, not in my home.


    You know, I have always wondered why its always a man with 2+ wives...but you NEVER see or hear of a woman with more than one husband....

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  • my2kids0506
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 12:59 AM
  • I could not do it, but I don't think that it should be illegal. I think that if you are comfy with it then to each there own. I would not want anyone else to be in love with my husband or my hubby to be in love with anyone else.

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