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Teens mistake sex screams for assault....beat woman's lover

Posted by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 3:01 AM
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What do you think of this?  My question is why didn't they call the cops?

TORRINGTON, Connecticut - A 16-year-old girl thought she heard her mother being assaulted by her boyfriend and rounded up some friends who beat him up, only to learn later that the couple actually were having sex, the woman and police said.

The girl misinterpreted the woman's amorous screams, and she and four other teens went to the woman's bedroom in the Torrington home on June 6, police Lt. Bruce Whiteley said Thursday. One of the teens beat the 25-year-old man with a bat and others punched him, police said. He suffered a black eye and several bruises.

The girl, two 17-year-old boys and Dilyen Langdeau, 19, of Torrington, were arrested Tuesday night and arraigned in Bantam Superior Court on Wednesday. Langdeau was charged with assault and conspiracy; the teens face similar counts. The fifth teenager was not charged.


A judge sealed the police report. The names of the girl and the two boys were not released because of their ages.

The 34-year-old woman, Melanie Arnold, told The Associated Press on Thursday that the girl is her daughter. Arnold denied she was screaming, and said her daughter thought she heard a slap and believed an assault was happening.

"Instead of asking what was going on, they assumed and took matters into their own hands," Arnold said. "Now they have to learn a lesson."

The teens knocked on the bedroom door and Arnold opened it, according to the couple, who recently broke up.

'You see what happens'
The teens rushed into the room and the man, Roger Swanson, said he didn't have a chance to explain himself. He said he tried to get away, but the teens chased him down and started beating him in the house.

He said he knelt down over a chair and tried to protect his face, but got hit in the eye and in the back. He said Arnold covered his back to try to protect him, but the teen with the bat started hitting him in the legs. Then the youths left.

"What if they fight someone else and those guys don't walk away? What if they kill somebody?" he said. "Then they're going to spend the rest of their lives in jail. These kids need to learn, go through the court system and see if you do something to somebody, you see what happens."

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katalinaskies
by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 3:03 AM

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sapphiresoda
by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 3:05 AM

Damn, I guess it's no longer kosher to smack an ass during sex.


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HeatherMae55
by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 3:07 AM


Quoting sapphiresoda:

Damn, I guess it's no longer kosher to smack an ass during sex.

haha!  Guess I'm in trouble..  lol!

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Ms.Upinyourface
by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 3:10 AM

Loud sex can lead to unexpected attention. Maybe screaming will not be such a "turn on" or who knows the next story maybe "screaming mother under-arrest for disturbing the peace"

I feel sorry for her son. What a horrible emotionally confusing situation.


lovemymarine306
by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 3:10 AM

hmm...sounds like that girl just needed a reason to kick that guy's ass.  i hope they do go to jail

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Turtleangel04
by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 3:12 AM

Dang! I'll give them credit for coming to the aid of someone they thought needed help. However they should not have started beating anyone til they gave them a chance to explain first. It's a hard lesson to learn but one they need to learn.


At least now I know it's not just my 11 1/2 yr old DS yielding his heavy ass skateboard in the hallway thinking someone was trying to break in while DH and I were getting it on.

Thank god he took his time trying to figure out what he was hearing before he swung the skateboard. LOL


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EmmysMom85
by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 3:17 AM

That must have been some rough sex..

mommy2isabella
by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 3:19 AM


Quoting lovemymarine306:

hmm...sounds like that girl just needed a reason to kick that guy's ass.  i hope they do go to jail


That's what I was thinking

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dre_bunny
by Gold Member on Jul. 3, 2009 at 3:21 AM

lol

Quoting EmmysMom85:

That must have been some rough sex..


rocklovinggirl
by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 3:21 AM
yeah, i could be in trouble, too...wow, lol!
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