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NEW Moms Shut the F**k Up

tessiemae41

posted to Newcomers Club - Active discussion in The CafeMom Newcomers Club
on Jul. 3, 2009 at 9:04 AM

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My family and I went to my brother home for an open house party.  So one of my kids, age 15, had a headache. This new mom of one 4-month old child, is going to question me about, "what am I doing about my child's headache" and since it is kind of chilly out she would never let her child leave home without a lite jacket. I told her to shut up, if he wanted a lite jacket he should of put one on, as far as his head hurting he should of thought about it before putting on those loud ass ear phones.

What gives new parents the in site on so many things? This is your first child, yeah maybe you baby sat, so did I, but that does not give you the right to tell people how to raise their children. I have 10 yes ten fucking kids, you have only one, if anything I should be giving you advice, but since we raise our children they way we see fit, I will not.

Just wanted to vent.

Wife to Kadum & Proud momma of (17 yr. old twins: Skylar & Kalib), (15 yr. old triplets, Joshua , Matthew & Apua), (12 yr old twins: Atta & Nadia) and (9 yr. old triplets: Anaya, Sia and Adora)


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Written by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 9:04 AM

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  • abbynzachsmommy
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 9:11 AM
  • LOL...thats funny. She sure had some balls. I have a friend like that though. I'm pregnant with my THIRD, she has NO kids..at all. She hasnt even been in a serious relationship since I have been married.  Still she feels the need to give ME advice on parenting and pregnancy. I dont  care that she's a "trained Douala"... I have actually pushed the kids out...not just held someones hand while THEY did it.  Now, when she begins her sermons on child rearing and pregnancy I ask her how many kids she's had and it usually shuts her up.

    Its amazing how people think that they get a TEENNNYYY bit of experience in one area and all of a sudden they know all there is to know.

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  • tmfoote
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 9:12 AM
  • Just because you have ten kids doesn't mean you know everything, and her having one doesn't mean she knows nothing. Did you ever stop to think maybe she was just trying to help or be nice and offer advice. Don't be so judgemental.

  • savannahnhi
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 9:14 AM
  • you think this user is a troll?

  • LiLmOmMiE08
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 9:15 AM
  • oh yeah by the way, you are amazing for having all multiples 

  • AlyssaH87
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 9:16 AM
  • All I got outta of this post is a question....how the heck did you end up with (17 yr. old twins: Skylar & Kalib), (15 yr. old triplets, Joshua , Matthew & Apua), (12 yr old twins: Atta & Nadia) and (9 yr. old triplets: Anaya, Sia and Adora)??

    2 sets of twins and two sets of triplets. Thats crazy!!!

  • ShadowLark
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 9:16 AM

  • Quoting Glori-Hol:

     Wife to Kadum & Proud momma of (17 yr. old twins: Skylar & Kalib), (15 yr. old triplets, Joshua , Matthew & Apua), (12 yr old twins: Atta & Nadia) and (9 yr. old triplets: Anaya, Sia and Adora)

    Holy Shit!!  But YAY!

    Yeah - WOW!  How did you get that many twins and triplets?  Are you just lucky or did you use meds?  That is AWESOME!  (And if it's none of my business, tell me.  But that is COOL!)

  • abbynzachsmommy
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 9:16 AM
  • No, it doesnt mean she knows everything, but you can bet she knows and he** of a lot more than a mom of ONE 4 month old.

    Quoting tmfoote:

    Just because you have ten kids doesn't mean you know everything, and her having one doesn't mean she knows nothing. Did you ever stop to think maybe she was just trying to help or be nice and offer advice. Don't be so judgemental.


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  • Tracy67
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 9:16 AM
  • Maybe she was trying to be helpful, but then there are those people like my aunt who has no kids (thank god) and still tells various family members how to care for thier kids. I always just want to tell her to stick to the things she knows, like pouring another glass of wine! LOL

  • SunshineSmiles
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 9:17 AM
  • are you serious? NO LADY.

    Quoting savannahnhi:

    you think this user is a troll?



  • Zanny
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 9:17 AM
  • I know what you mean,... I have a 17 year old, and a 6 year old... I love it when my friends, who have children as old as 7 tell me how to deal with Teenagers...  NOT!!!!


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