NEW Moms Shut the F**k Up

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  • bigdogmom71
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 9:17 AM

• Yeah, we'll see how well she handles teenagers that have a mind of their own when hers becomes ones.  She will find out it is like talking to a wall.  Some people!

  

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  • carol119
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 9:18 AM

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  Quoting AlyssaH87:
  
  

  All I got outta of this post is a question....how the heck did you end up with (17 yr. old twins: Skylar & Kalib), (15 yr. old triplets, Joshua , Matthew & Apua), (12 yr old twins: Atta & Nadia) and (9 yr. old triplets: Anaya, Sia and Adora)??

  2 sets of twins and two sets of triplets. Thats crazy!!!
  

  I bet it was with fertility drugs.
  

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  • athenax3
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 9:18 AM

• When someone offers unwanted or unsolicited advice, I try to be considerate of their opinion and polite- (someday I may WANT their advice, lol) and if I don't feel that it's valid or appropriate, I ignore it and move on- life as you should know having ten kids, is about learning to differentiate between what is really significant and what isn't. I know what you mean about it being annoying though, and if a vent in here helps you to rid yourself of the minor aggravation, then it's all to the good, right?

  Bless you for having ten kids, you brave, crazy woman you!! loll.....
  

  
  Make a pregnancy ticker

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  • lovelily79
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 9:18 AM

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  Quoting AlyssaH87:
  
  

  All I got outta of this post is a question....how the heck did you end up with (17 yr. old twins: Skylar & Kalib), (15 yr. old triplets, Joshua , Matthew & Apua), (12 yr old twins: Atta & Nadia) and (9 yr. old triplets: Anaya, Sia and Adora)??

  2 sets of twins and two sets of triplets. Thats crazy!!!
  

  lol a friend of mine got twins on the first shot, she says she won't be having anymore due to the fact the doctor told her the chances of having two or more again if she gets pregnant is beyond 50% lol. She says forget all that mess......
  

  
  

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  • mysteriousmom06
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 9:19 AM

• I agree with you. For me, its not so much the new moms but when a mom with a baby decides she knows better than me how to handle my 4, 9, or 10 yr old. Baby's are way different & you may think you know 100% everything your little one needs but you've never had a 10 year old, so stop trying to pretend like you know what the hells going on with my older kids.

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  • allurasmamma
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 9:19 AM

• I am sure the mom was not trying to insult you. She just had a bad way of trying to talk with you. 

                                     
  

  
  

             ***   WHO'S WAR IS IT ANYWAY? ***
  

  
  

   

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  • athenax3
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 9:20 AM

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  Quoting carol119:
  
  

  
  

  Quoting AlyssaH87:
  
  

  All I got outta of this post is a question....how the heck did you end up with (17 yr. old twins: Skylar & Kalib), (15 yr. old triplets, Joshua , Matthew & Apua), (12 yr old twins: Atta & Nadia) and (9 yr. old triplets: Anaya, Sia and Adora)??

  2 sets of twins and two sets of triplets. Thats crazy!!!
  

  I bet it was with fertility drugs.
  

  that isn't a fair presumption, those prone to having multiples naturally often continue to do so- my great grandmother had two sets of twins and a set of triplets as well, long before they were in the habit of using ferttility drugs, some are just predisposed to the possiblity.
  

  
  Make a pregnancy ticker

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  • akataml
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 9:20 AM

• No she is most definatly not a troll
  

  Quoting savannahnhi:
  
  

  you think this user is a troll?

  
  

  
  

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  • tmfoote
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 9:20 AM

• Having more kids doesn't make you know more, and it doesn't automatically make you a great parent.
  

  Quoting abbynzachsmommy:
  
  

  No, it doesnt mean she knows everything, but you can bet she knows and he** of a lot more than a mom of ONE 4 month old.
  

  Quoting tmfoote:
  
  

  Just because you have ten kids doesn't mean you know everything, and her having one doesn't mean she knows nothing. Did you ever stop to think maybe she was just trying to help or be nice and offer advice. Don't be so judgemental.

  
  

  
  

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  • ShadowLark
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 9:20 AM

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  Quoting abbynzachsmommy:
  
  

  LOL...thats funny. She sure had some balls. I have a friend like that though. I'm pregnant with my THIRD, she has NO kids..at all. She hasnt even been in a serious relationship since I have been married.  Still she feels the need to give ME advice on parenting and pregnancy. I dont  care that she's a "trained Douala"... I have actually pushed the kids out...not just held someones hand while THEY did it.  Now, when she begins her sermons on child rearing and pregnancy I ask her how many kids she's had and it usually shuts her up.

  Its amazing how people think that they get a TEENNNYYY bit of experience in one area and all of a sudden they know all there is to know.
  

  Agreed.  And honestly - a 15 yr old can decide his own darn wardrobe!  Even a five year old would throw off his jacket as soon as he starts playing!  Just remind him, when he finally has kids of his own, to dress the baby in layers and pay attention to his/her temp.  But yeah - he can freeze if he wants to.  I know I did often enough!
  

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