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My family and I went to my brother home for an open house party. So one of my kids, age 15, had a headache. This new mom of one 4-month old child, is going to question me about, "what am I doing about my child's headache" and since it is kind of chilly out she would never let her child leave home without a lite jacket. I told her to shut up, if he wanted a lite jacket he should of put one on, as far as his head hurting he should of thought about it before putting on those loud ass ear phones.
What gives new parents the in site on so many things? This is your first child, yeah maybe you baby sat, so did I, but that does not give you the right to tell people how to raise their children. I have 10 yes ten fucking kids, you have only one, if anything I should be giving you advice, but since we raise our children they way we see fit, I will not.
Just wanted to vent.
Wife to Kadum & Proud momma of (17 yr. old twins: Skylar & Kalib), (15 yr. old triplets, Joshua , Matthew & Apua), (12 yr old twins: Atta & Nadia) and (9 yr. old triplets: Anaya, Sia and Adora)
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Quoting athenax3:
Quoting carol119:
Quoting AlyssaH87:
All I got outta of this post is a question....how the heck did you end up with (17 yr. old twins: Skylar & Kalib), (15 yr. old triplets, Joshua , Matthew & Apua), (12 yr old twins: Atta & Nadia) and (9 yr. old triplets: Anaya, Sia and Adora)??
2 sets of twins and two sets of triplets. Thats crazy!!!
I bet it was with fertility drugs.
that isn't a fair presumption, those prone to having multiples naturally often continue to do so- my great grandmother had two sets of twins and a set of triplets as well, long before they were in the habit of using ferttility drugs, some are just predisposed to the possiblity.
i agree.. not fair.
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God loves everyone, but probably prefers 'fruits of the spirit' over 'religious nuts'.
He who angers you controls you.
God promises a safe landing, not a calm passage.
God Himself does not propose to judge a man until he is dead. So why should you?
why hasnt she responded once? Im not saying she is but im curious as to why.
Quoting SunshineSmiles:
are you serious? NO LADY.
Quoting savannahnhi:
you think this user is a troll?
.. but it sure as hell gives you a lot more experience, and experience counts.
Quoting tmfoote:
Having more kids doesn't make you know more, and it doesn't automatically make you a great parent.
Quoting abbynzachsmommy:
No, it doesnt mean she knows everything, but you can bet she knows and he** of a lot more than a mom of ONE 4 month old.
Quoting tmfoote:
Just because you have ten kids doesn't mean you know everything, and her having one doesn't mean she knows nothing. Did you ever stop to think maybe she was just trying to help or be nice and offer advice. Don't be so judgemental.
no idea, maybe she got busy?
ive seen her on here before, she is not a troll!
Quoting LiLmOmMiE08:
why hasnt she responded once? Im not saying she is but im curious as to why.
Quoting SunshineSmiles:
are you serious? NO LADY.
Quoting savannahnhi:
you think this user is a troll?
I think if she was a troll she would have fluffed the story a bit, like saying she beat the chicks ass or something. It's a common experiance that a lot of people have encountered and she's venting.
Quoting LiLmOmMiE08:why hasnt she responded once? Im not saying she is but im curious as to why.
Quoting SunshineSmiles:
are you serious? NO LADY.
Quoting savannahnhi:
you think this user is a troll?
OMG he's 15. If he needs tylenol and a jacket, he can get it his damn self.
She would think I'm a horrible mother. I make my two year old do dishes...
Well that is a true enough statement, but who would you more likely take financial advice from the banker with tons of money in the bank or the bum standing outside without a nickel in his pocket?
Quoting tmfoote:Having more kids doesn't make you know more, and it doesn't automatically make you a great parent.
Quoting abbynzachsmommy:
No, it doesnt mean she knows everything, but you can bet she knows and he** of a lot more than a mom of ONE 4 month old.
Quoting tmfoote:
Just because you have ten kids doesn't mean you know everything, and her having one doesn't mean she knows nothing. Did you ever stop to think maybe she was just trying to help or be nice and offer advice. Don't be so judgemental.
No WAY! It's not like she has ten kids or something! Oh wait.....
Quoting SunshineSmiles:no idea, maybe she got busy?
ive seen her on here before, she is not a troll!
Quoting LiLmOmMiE08:
why hasnt she responded once? Im not saying she is but im curious as to why.
Quoting SunshineSmiles:
are you serious? NO LADY.
Quoting savannahnhi:
you think this user is a troll?
ok i dont know if your serious or not, but that cracked me the hell up.. i cant picture my 2.5yr old doing dishes, little shit would break everything! lmao.. sorry, funny image..
Quoting kk_bella:
OMG he's 15. If he needs tylenol and a jacket, he can get it his damn self.
She would think I'm a horrible mother. I make my two year old do dishes...
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