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Do you?? I have.... lol
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I do all the time but it isn't to look through stuff it is just cuz I am bored. he does it to me. i have to go thru my text just to make sure I don't miss anything because he has read my messages and forgot to tell me

I used to with my ex because he had cheated. Finally he left me, and I realized the constant checking up on was no way to have a healthy relationship. I do not check on anything on my SO's.
"...Only the doing of justice is a good enough excuse to be born."
LOL sometimes I play with it--but only because he has a blackberry and my screen on my phone doesn't work. He can connect to the internet for free--I'm so jealous!
And I look through it when he's in the bathroom or he leaves his phone at home and the phone buzzes with a new message. I then tell him what it says and what he wants me to type back. He doesn't care, lol!



thats us to i could care less and neither can he
Quoting Humboldt0608:
If I'm looking for a number I don't have or I'm pulling pictures and video off of the kids to put into our family blog. It's no biggie and he does the same with mine.

well ya that too LOL
Quoting Laura4807:
yeah... but only when I know he was talking about me and I want to know what he said... good or bad. lol

Quoting Robin_Ayla:
Do you?? I have.... lol
Oh hell no! IMO no trust = not much of a marriage. Mine's good. No worries here.
Quoting Robin_Ayla:
I have, & still do... because i suspected him of cheating.... he was texting back and forth with this chick... i confronted him... it stopped... i think it saved my relationship :)
YEPPERS!! Well I did when he HAD one before I got rid of it!! lol That's how I found out that he was talking to his ex, so I grabbed his phone while he was shaving and walked my happy but down to the trash dumpster and threw it on in!! He was so mad but I told him that I'm not going to be some doormat for him to walk on and he can get a life! So we no longer even have cell's anymore, were strictly house phone! =)
oh yeah, I busted Mister Tough Guy "gushing" about me to his friend a couple weeks ago. lol ... I didnt tell him, because I know it would embarass him... but it sure made my day, lol
I've also busted him calling me a nagging bitch to the same friend. LOL
Quoting Babybutterfly08:
well ya that too LOL
Quoting Laura4807:
yeah... but only when I know he was talking about me and I want to know what he said... good or bad. lol
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i have a couple of times....but i dont feel the need anymore. the bc i was on made me crazy, i was paranoid every time he left the house.....but now that i'm off of that kind, i dont see the need, he's never once given me real reason to suspect him in the 4 years we've been together.
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