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*Spinoff* Do you go through your husbands CELL PHONE?!?!?!

Robin_Ayla

posted to Newcomers Club - Active discussion in The CafeMom Newcomers Club
on Jul. 3, 2009 at 5:26 PM

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Question: Do you go through yout husbands cell phone?

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Do you?? I have.... lol

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  • Babybutterfly08
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 5:42 PM
  • I do all the time but it isn't to look through stuff it is just cuz I am bored. he does it to me. i have to go thru my text just to make sure I don't miss anything because he has read my messages and forgot to tell me




     

  • elleinad
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 5:42 PM
  • I used to with my ex because he had cheated. Finally he left me, and I realized the constant checking up on was no way to have a healthy relationship. I do not check on anything on my SO's.

    "...Only the doing of justice is a good enough excuse to be born."

     

  • iheartmyshaman
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 5:44 PM
  • LOL sometimes I play with it--but only because he has a blackberry and my screen on my phone doesn't work.  He can connect to the internet for free--I'm so jealous!

    And I look through it when he's in the bathroom or he leaves his phone at home and the phone buzzes with a new message.  I then tell him what it says and what he wants me to type back.  He doesn't care, lol!



  • Babybutterfly08
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 5:45 PM
  • thats us to i could care less and neither can he

    Quoting Humboldt0608:

    If I'm looking for a number I don't have or I'm pulling pictures and video off of the kids to put into our family blog. It's no biggie and he does the same with mine.





     

  • Babybutterfly08
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 5:46 PM
  • well ya that too LOL

    Quoting Laura4807:

    yeah... but only when I know he was talking about me and I want to know what he said... good or bad. lol





     

  • Donnafmsbee
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 5:50 PM

  • Quoting Robin_Ayla:

    Do you?? I have.... lol


    Oh hell no! IMO  no trust = not much of a marriage. Mine's good.   No worries here.

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  • Mommy2MrHandsum
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 5:52 PM

  • Quoting Robin_Ayla:

    I have, & still do... because i suspected him of cheating.... he was texting back and forth with this chick... i confronted him... it stopped... i think it saved my relationship :)


  • 3greatkids751
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 5:52 PM
  • YEPPERS!! Well I did when he HAD one before I got rid of it!! lol That's how I found out that he was talking to his ex, so I grabbed his phone while he was shaving and walked my happy but down to the trash dumpster and threw it on in!! He was so mad but I told him that I'm not going to be some doormat for him to walk on and he can get a life! So we no longer even have cell's anymore, were strictly house phone! =)

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  • Laura4807
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 5:53 PM
  • oh yeah, I busted Mister Tough Guy "gushing" about me to his friend a couple weeks ago. lol ... I didnt tell him, because I know it would embarass him... but it sure made my day, lol

    I've also busted him calling me a nagging bitch to the same friend. LOL

    Quoting Babybutterfly08:

    well ya that too LOL

    Quoting Laura4807:

    yeah... but only when I know he was talking about me and I want to know what he said... good or bad. lol



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  • megan479
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 5:56 PM
  • i have a couple of times....but i dont feel the need anymore.  the bc i was on made me crazy, i was paranoid every time he left the house.....but now that i'm off of that kind, i dont see the need, he's never once given me real reason to suspect him in the 4 years we've been together.

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