*Spinoff* Do you go through your husbands CELL PHONE?!?!?!

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  • loves2lovekay
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 5:57 PM

• Once upon a time I did check my daughter's father's phone. We are no longer together because well...I found what I was looking for, he was cheating. However, he was the first and last guy I ever did that too. I decided I would never go through another person's phone, and I seriously dislike when my SO even touches my phone . But he doesn't mind if I do, one time I was makin a call from his phone (my batteries died) he walked in the room and I said "just trying to make a call" and he started laughing and was like "relax its okay, i dont care if you go through my phone"...and i wasnt but whatever lol
  

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  • yngmomma21833
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 5:58 PM

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  Quoting Robin_Ayla:
  
  

  I have, because i suspected him of cheating.... he was texting back and forth with this chick... i confronted him... it stopped... i think it saved my relationship :)

  
  Same here. He almost lost me over it. I deleted the chicks # out of his phone and told him if I saw it there again I was gone. So far so good :) Oh and he looks through my phone also and I could care less.

  

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  • GothyMama
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 5:59 PM

• I put no.  The only reason I've ever touched his cell is because I forgot mine and needed to call someone.  I know he's not cheating on me.  He doesn't have time, LOL!  He'd much rather be home with his family than wasting energy on an affair!
  

  
  
  

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  • leejoy
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 6:01 PM

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  Quoting sallymoon:
  
  

  I don't have to go through my husbands cell... the phones are in my name and I pay the bills, so I can see a record of every call made from and to his phone.  Everything is in my name and I have complete responsibility and control over the money.

  ditto
  

  
  
                                  

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  • crystalchu
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 6:02 PM

• Well since we share a cell phone yes yes I do lol.
  

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  • MommySayz
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 6:02 PM

• only if i need to get a phone number, but most of our contacts are the same.  he did an online e-thing with a hotel and couldnt retrieve his reservation number and had to peal through it to find it, but other than that? no, my phone is better anyway *lol*
  

  

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  • Olivetobe
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 6:02 PM

• Nope.

  He doesn't have a cell. :)

  And if he did, I wouldn't. There is no reason.
  

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  • mommy_of3boys
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 6:07 PM

• DITTO!!  The first time I wasn't looking for anything really at most I was hoping to see what new video games he and his friends were talking abut, I wanted to try to get it to suprise him.  Well, I was the one suprised!!  And I called that girl and scared the living shit out of her.  She wouldn't even talk to me DH about work realated things after that!  haha

  If I ever even think he's messing around again I will drop his ass so fast!

  ETA~~ He looks threw my phone, which is fine I have no reason to not let him!  He nevver gets to far, I have a pregnant sister and a SIL that just had a baby so there was a lot of talk on my texts that he just doesn't want to see!  haha

  Quoting Hecate9:
  
  

  I do every chance I get. He cheated on me before and that is how I found out, by going through his bill and his phone.  I know he's not anymore, but I won't be made a fool of again.

   

  I'm April, a 28 year old, tattoo loving, crazy hair dying, Black Belt in Tae Kwon Do, extended rear facing, extended harnessing, CIO, occasional co-sleeping, non-circumcising, pro-life, selective and delayed vaxing, breastfeeding as long as possible, childbirth should be drug free, spanking as a last resort, winter hating, star gazing, Pisces, Techno listening, baking and cooking, non smoking, occasional martini drinking, texting, can fix my own car, pink loving, surrounded by testosterone, happily married for 2 years, Mommy of 3 amazing boys, Mahe, 6, has Autism, Jaedin, 4, is Developmentally Delayed and Conrad, 2, is a typical child!

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  • JasKat3
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 6:08 PM

•  We have only one cell... Its his though.. the same one he's had since High School ( well same number.. different phones) and he's now 28. So I HAVE to go through it since he leaves it with me all day.

  He gets texts from many people.. Guys AND YES Girsl.. I always let him know who text and what they said.

  I have complete Trust in him as he does with me.. So I dont see it as snooping or as being "insecure" if I go through his stuff.. and vice versa.

  

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  • jen_jen7
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 6:18 PM

• i have and not because i don't trust him just being nosy...most of his texts are from me thou so its not much fun to go through haha

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