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Would you ever have a 3some?

Kaybean

posted to Newcomers Club - Active discussion in The CafeMom Newcomers Club
on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:10 PM

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Question: What do you think about 3somes?

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I personally would not ever have a 3some. I don't think its the way sex is meant to be at all, it can come with a whole array of consequences, and especially as a parent..I don't feel comfortable practicing such things because I want my kids to grow up knowing that sex is meant to be special with the person you love. I honestly don't understand how anyone can do that when they're in a committed relationship with someone, and it goes against my morals as well. I just feel like sex these days has really lost a lot of meaning. Just wondering what others think..

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Written by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:10 PM

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  • Hybrid
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:19 PM
  • Ah; that. Wow. No way. haha.

    Quoting Jade655:


    Look on the bright side, a threesome doesn't have to be another girl...LMAO


    Quoting Hybrid:

    It's not for our marriage. I won;t judge those who have done, want to do it or will do it again. Whatever works for their marriage; their life. There just isn't enough room in my bed for anyone else. Plus, I'm overly jealous.




  • masonsmommii
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:20 PM
  • maybe if your single and dont have children i never would though

  • airforewifenmom
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:20 PM
  • LMAO! NO, bur my DH would flip the **** out if I asked him to touch another man, or to watch one touch me~!

    Quoting Jade655:

     

    Look on the bright side, a threesome doesn't have to be another girl...LMAO


     

    Quoting Hybrid:

    It's not for our marriage. I won;t judge those who have done, want to do it or will do it again. Whatever works for their marriage; their life. There just isn't enough room in my bed for anyone else. Plus, I'm overly jealous.

     


  • Kaybean
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:22 PM
  • Haha isn't that the truth. I've heard so many guys say their wife/so shouldn't take it personally if they were to have a 3some because it wouldn't mean anything, but the second the suggestion of another man is mentioned, its all the sudden totally different lol.

    Quoting airforewifenmom:

    LMAO! NO, bur my DH would flip the **** out if I asked him to touch another man, or to watch one touch me~!

    Quoting Jade655:

     

    Look on the bright side, a threesome doesn't have to be another girl...LMAO


     

    Quoting Hybrid:

    It's not for our marriage. I won;t judge those who have done, want to do it or will do it again. Whatever works for their marriage; their life. There just isn't enough room in my bed for anyone else. Plus, I'm overly jealous.

     

     


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  • pammy32953
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:23 PM

  • Quoting jillbailey26:

    Nope, never.


    my husband and i WILL NOT share eachother

  • Jynx1978
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:23 PM
  • Been there, done that, and nothing good comes out of it.  It makes the line between faithful and unfaithful rather blurry, and in past experiences, has always been the beginning of the end.

  • luvmyparties
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:24 PM
  • I do... every night... with Johnny Depp and Mark Wahlberg... then my damn husband wakes me up....jerk!

  • athenax3
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:24 PM
  • I wouldn't judge someone else for it, but it definitely isn't for me, lol, yuck.....


  • athenax3
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:24 PM

  • Quoting Jynx1978:

    Been there, done that, and nothing good comes out of it.  It makes the line between faithful and unfaithful rather blurry, and in past experiences, has always been the beginning of the end.

    lol.....


  • athenax3
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:26 PM
  • When my dh jokingly suggested such a thing, I immediately picked out a guy in the room and said "do you want to ask him or should I?" lol... he suddenly didn't find it so funny, and oddly never mentioned it again- smart man.

    Quoting Kaybean:

    Haha isn't that the truth. I've heard so many guys say their wife/so shouldn't take it personally if they were to have a 3some because it wouldn't mean anything, but the second the suggestion of another man is mentioned, its all the sudden totally different lol.

    Quoting airforewifenmom:

    LMAO! NO, bur my DH would flip the **** out if I asked him to touch another man, or to watch one touch me~!

    Quoting Jade655:


    Look on the bright side, a threesome doesn't have to be another girl...LMAO


     

    Quoting Hybrid:

    It's not for our marriage. I won;t judge those who have done, want to do it or will do it again. Whatever works for their marriage; their life. There just isn't enough room in my bed for anyone else. Plus, I'm overly jealous.






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