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Would you ever have a 3some?

Kaybean

posted to Newcomers Club - Active discussion in The CafeMom Newcomers Club
on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:10 PM

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Question: What do you think about 3somes?

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I personally would not ever have a 3some. I don't think its the way sex is meant to be at all, it can come with a whole array of consequences, and especially as a parent..I don't feel comfortable practicing such things because I want my kids to grow up knowing that sex is meant to be special with the person you love. I honestly don't understand how anyone can do that when they're in a committed relationship with someone, and it goes against my morals as well. I just feel like sex these days has really lost a lot of meaning. Just wondering what others think..

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Written by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:10 PM

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  • luna513
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:40 PM
  • Not no but hell no!! I don't share my man with anyone! It may be all good for some people but it has no room in DH and my relationship. Our relationship is not lacking any excitement at all!!
    It may be good for some people but it's not for us.

  • greenie63
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:42 PM
  • Yes I have, would I do it again?  I don't know. Everyone has different views on sex. My view is very open i believe sex and love are 2 different things. When you love someone sex is amazing, but i can seperate the 2.

  • Aislinn
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:43 PM

  • Quoting Jade655:

     

    Look on the bright side, a threesome doesn't have to be another girl...LMAO


     

    Quoting Hybrid:

    It's not for our marriage. I won;t judge those who have done, want to do it or will do it again. Whatever works for their marriage; their life. There just isn't enough room in my bed for anyone else. Plus, I'm overly jealous.

     

     That's a "bright side"? lol That,to me, is creepier than two girls and one guy... lol

  • sweetnsassymami
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:46 PM
  • only if its with the rock haha j/k no I don't share!


  • ThunderKitten
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:46 PM
  • I personally don't think I could- I'm not comfortable with myself that way. But I have had some weird dreams about being involved in one. lol I need to get a "dreams" book and see what that means. lol

                   

                           

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  • greenie63
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:47 PM
  • Oh hell Johnny gets around cause he was with me last night!  LOL

    Quoting luvmyparties:

    I do... every night... with Johnny Depp and Mark Wahlberg... then my damn husband wakes me up....jerk!


  • ambr2006
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:50 PM
  • No way, very disgusting to me.

  • billiesmom
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:53 PM
  • ladies i have ben there done that and im married with two kids i cant say it wasnt fun at first but it did case alot of problems between me an my dh we almosted seperated well i left for a one night and came back home because i made my bed i needed to sleep in it besides i love my husband and it was my idea to forfeel his fanatasy, so cant judge

  • CarterMommy
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:53 PM
  •  i could NEVER see my husband with someone else and i could NEVER be with someone other than my husband... so it just wouldn't work

  • Jafra_mommy
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:55 PM
  • Ya know what, if I want a 3rd person to join in with our afternoon delight, then dammit, I'm going to do it. I've considered it. But for now the chains, whip, and gag work pretty well. Sometimes we'll add a little I Dream of Jenna 2. And if we want to be really kinky we'll bring out the strap on and anal beads.

     

    ask and ye shall receive.

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