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Would you ever have a 3some?

Kaybean

posted to Newcomers Club - Active discussion in The CafeMom Newcomers Club
on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:10 PM

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Question: What do you think about 3somes?

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I would/have done it

Nothing against it, but not for me

I think its wrong

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I personally would not ever have a 3some. I don't think its the way sex is meant to be at all, it can come with a whole array of consequences, and especially as a parent..I don't feel comfortable practicing such things because I want my kids to grow up knowing that sex is meant to be special with the person you love. I honestly don't understand how anyone can do that when they're in a committed relationship with someone, and it goes against my morals as well. I just feel like sex these days has really lost a lot of meaning. Just wondering what others think..

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Written by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:10 PM

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  • luvmyparties
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:56 PM
  • Not after 3am PST he wasn't cause that's when i feel back to sleep! HAHA!

    Quoting greenie63:

    Oh hell Johnny gets around cause he was with me last night!  LOL

    Quoting luvmyparties:

    I do... every night... with Johnny Depp and Mark Wahlberg... then my damn husband wakes me up....jerk!

     


  • Mezzi
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:57 PM
  •  If Leo DiCaprio knocked on my door and Hubby was Home

    HECK YA!!!!!!!

    Don't like my chances tho! lol

     

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  • greenie63
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 11:59 PM
  • LOL!!! well he's damn fast cause i'm on the east coast.

    Quoting luvmyparties:

    Not after 3am PST he wasn't cause that's when i feel back to sleep! HAHA!

    Quoting greenie63:

    Oh hell Johnny gets around cause he was with me last night!  LOL

    Quoting luvmyparties:

    I do... every night... with Johnny Depp and Mark Wahlberg... then my damn husband wakes me up....jerk!




  • azn_ladie82
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 12:01 AM
  • If you wanna do it, go for it. I just wouldn't want to ruin my marriage, so I wouldn't do it.


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  • Je_Jette_Poo
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 4:27 AM

  • Quoting Jafra_mommy:

    Ya know what, if I want a 3rd person to join in with our afternoon delight, then dammit, I'm going to do it. I've considered it. But for now the chains, whip, and gag work pretty well. Sometimes we'll add a little I Dream of Jenna 2. And if we want to be really kinky we'll bring out the strap on and anal beads.

     

    ask and ye shall receive.

    HAHAHAHAHA!

    Anal beads are a nice touch.

  • GabbyP.
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 4:30 AM
  • To be honest my fiance and I have talked about it but decided no because I get jealous easily!

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  • rocklovinggirl
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 4:52 AM
  • Not for me... I would be jealous and don't want to share my husband. Maybe back in the day if I had a friends with benefits and a hot girl wanted to join but not in a serious relationship!

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  • sassygirl09
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 5:06 AM
  • Been there done that. To each it's own. Opinions are like behinds everybody has one.

  • MOMofTwo_99_00
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 5:20 AM
  • This is how I feel about it, If a couple wants to have a 3some that is there thing, No one should have to worry about it, If you would not do it, Then don't. No one is asking you to. And if you do. Well have fun keep it to your self. Or the three of you, No one else needs to know about it. I don't see why so many mom's on here are so Judgemental. Its like everyone has something Un-kind to say about everyone, Or everything Or hell anything that's not what they would want or do. I was not raised like that. So I don't really care what others do. What you do in your home, Is your thing. And what I do in mine.... Well that's mine. So who cares who would or would not have a 3 some. Its no big deal. Its what that couple wants. So let them have there fun, You don't have to worry, They wont force you in on it. And Those who do , Well stop telling the world. Not everyone should know that you invite Others to join in on your relationship. And that is something that should be kept quite any ways. 

  • GarneteWolf
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 5:24 AM
  • Done it, loved it, we'll do it again for sure. But that works for our relationship. :D

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