I Pi$$ed Off A Pregnant Woman

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  • rachana
  on Jul. 4, 2009 at 12:42 AM

• Bump?
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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  • mommybug77
  on Jul. 4, 2009 at 12:44 AM

•  I am still BF my 2 1/2 year old. Her sisters never batted an eye. They were 6 & 8 when she was born. It is really not something that I felt I needed their input on really.

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  • iheartmyshaman
  on Jul. 4, 2009 at 12:44 AM

• Lol, weird.  My firstborn was EBF, my secondborn was formula fed.  There will be jealousy in kids regardless of how they are fed.  I wouldn't have said anything, but I wouldn't have asked my other child if it was okay, either.

  

  
  

  

  
  

  

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  • celticreverie
  on Jul. 4, 2009 at 12:46 AM

• No, other kids have no say in whether you breastfeed or not. Why she would ask him, I don't know, and why he would care? Again I don't know.

  My two year old doesn't care that I nurse and she weaned only 6 months before Taegen was born. There have been no issues at all.

  Sounds like a very weird conversation though LOL.
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  
  

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  • LiquidAmethyst
  on Jul. 4, 2009 at 12:46 AM

• sounds like she is feeling guilty about her decision!

  

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  • cjsmom0206
  on Jul. 4, 2009 at 12:47 AM

• That's honestly non of their business....My uncle has two kids that are far apart in age....about 8 years I think. My aunt did not bf my older cousin Jake, but she did decide to bf Lindsay. I'm pretty sure she didn't ask Jacob for his permission.

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  • ShutterBug4Life
  on Jul. 4, 2009 at 12:50 AM

• Sounds like she wanted an excuse not to breastfeed and tried using her son to do it. I mean what 9 yo boy is going to care whether or not his mom BF the new baby?

  *~ShutterBug4Life~* Wife of Highschool Sweetheart Adam since 10/03/99  Mother of Jasmine since 6/27/02  Mother of Jesse since 3/10/08  Mother of Katherine (Katie) Due 10/4/09

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  • mommybug77
  on Jul. 4, 2009 at 12:50 AM

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  Quoting iheartmyshaman:
  
  

  Lol, weird.  My firstborn was EBF, my secondborn was formula fed.  There will be jealousy in kids regardless of how they are fed.  I wouldn't have said anything, but I wouldn't have asked my other child if it was okay, either.

  
  All my girls have nursed for different periods of time with my youngest going the longest. My older girls are 20 months apart & have never to this day even asked if they were BF. My oldest did ask classmates if their moms BF when they were pregnant around the same time as my youngest (She was in 2nd grade)lol.

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  • rachana
  on Jul. 4, 2009 at 12:55 AM

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  Quoting LiquidAmethyst:
  
  

  sounds like she is feeling guilty about her decision!

  Yeah I think she does feel guilty about not breastfeeding her eldest. What was weird was when I breastfed my kids and she would make comments about wanting to do it when she had another baby. Minds do change though.
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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  • imamombygrace
  on Jul. 4, 2009 at 12:55 AM

• I agree with the PP..there will be jealousy regardless of how a child is fed.  I actually think that is last on a list of sibling rivalry kind of stuff..lol..who was breast fed and who was not.  There are actually some things I am going to do different with this little one...that will be different from what I did with our first DD. Not b/c I don't love them equally..just that I have been better educated now on some subjects over the years and some things have changed.  It's just kind of weird she would ask permission from a 9 year old.  So nope...my dd would not have a say so.  I agree awkward conversation.

  

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