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Is there anyone else who has never had an....(adult content!!!!)

Posted by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 1:36 AM
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Question: Do you have an orgasm during sex?

Options:

Every time

At least 90% of the time

About 75% of the time

Probably half the time

Sometimes but not often (like 25% of the time)

Rarely (less then 10% of the time)

Only once or twice

Never

Other


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Total Votes: 122

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Is there anyone else out there who has never had an orgasm during sex?  I had tried so many things in the past, read books, magazines, positions etc...but nothing worked.  I've always faked it, I've never once had a real one.  Well not during sex.  I can give myself one (TMI).  Its been like a year and 7 months since I had sex last so I won't be trying anytime soon.  But I'm curious becuase I saw something in a post a long time ago and everyone was talking about orgasms during sex and I think I was the only one who's never had one. 

 


 


Posted by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 1:36 AM
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ohmami88
by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 1:38 AM

Might be TMI, but I can only O if I'm on top... I guess I know what I want and how to get it, haha


km08km05ca06
by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 1:38 AM

i have but my SO's sister told me that she hasnt her SO goes down on her to get her done

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LiquidAmethyst
by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 1:41 AM

i voted everytime, because, well i do everytime lol  for me, being on top makes me orgasm everytime, and if we are doing it some other way, i will play with my clit to help!  my DH will hold his until i get mine lol

you shouldn't fake it because then they think what they are doing is working!  get a little vibrator for your fun button to help it along

megsamomma
by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 1:41 AM


Quoting km08km05ca06:

i have but my SO's sister told me that she hasnt her SO goes down on her to get her done

Thats the start for me. The sex is the topping on the cake

airforewifenmom
by Lindsey on Jul. 4, 2009 at 1:41 AM

LMAO! SORRY AHEAD OF TIME IF I GIVE TMI! Try having your Dh sit up against the wall, or something kinda hard. Are you talking about clitoral orgasm or g-spot?? For a gspot orgasm...works best for me if DH is up on his knees, and I am lying flat on my back with my legs across his shoulders, or wrapped around his waist. Also, I dont get anywhere when he is trying to be nice and gentle.

Alishia655
by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 1:41 AM

I cannot remember the last time....if even at all. any tips?  lol

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srj-7128
by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 1:43 AM

I DO ALMOST EVERY TIME NOW, BUT I HAD SLEPT WITH A COUPLE OTHER GUYS BEFORE I MET MY SO AND I NEVER DID WITH ANY OF THEM, I TOO FAKED IT. I DONT KNOW WHY BUT I ALWAYS HAVE WITH MY SO, HE WAS THE FIRST GUY I EVER SLEPT WITH AND DID.

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vannahsmom07
by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 1:43 AM

at least im not the only control freak here! lol

Quoting ohmami88:

Might be TMI, but I can only O if I'm on top... I guess I know what I want and how to get it, haha


airforewifenmom
by Lindsey on Jul. 4, 2009 at 1:44 AM

TOYS!!!!!!!!!!! I always thought my dh would be "offended" it actually turns him on!!!!!!!

Quoting Alishia655:

I cannot remember the last time....if even at all. any tips?  lol


dreamerinluv
by Platinum Member on Jul. 4, 2009 at 1:44 AM

Yup....nothing like good oral....there are times when DH goes off B4 me....so when that happens I make him go "downtown"....LOL....but hes pretty good with his "magick stick"....that maan makes me SCREAM !!!

Quoting km08km05ca06:

i have but my SO's sister told me that she hasnt her SO goes down on her to get her done


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