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You've got to be kidding me!

Posted by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 3:38 AM
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Ok....I was at the laundromat tonight doing some of our clothes while my DD is away at grandmas and there was a girl who was maybe 4-5 months pregnant there too. So one of the laundromat owners went over to her and asked "Oh! How far along are you?" you know trying to make conversation. And this girl,now I think she may have been about 13 years old told the woman "Oh I'm not pregnant...I think....Do I look pregnant? My boyfriend says its just fat....But he also told me I'm too young to be pregnant like I'm not ready  so....I'm taking birth control pills to get rid of the baby if I am pregnant so I won't have the baby."


What!! You're taking birth control to get RID of the baby? Exactly how would that work hon? Anyway the owner just looked at her stunned and said..."Oh umm...ok so you're not pregnant?" And the girl said "No...well...I'm taking birth control to get rid of it." Ok by that time the owner was so confused she just walked away. The girl then turned to me and asked "Do I really look pregnant?" I told her "Yes." Well she does!

She asked me if taking the birth control would get rid of the baby and I honestly told her "I don't think so..." Ooohhh!! I was so upset with her for saying these things! Like its the baby's fault that she got pregnant!!

Anywho,Just wanted to share my interesting laundry day!

Posted by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 3:38 AM
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Je_Jette_Poo
by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 3:44 AM

HAHA!

Some people are so gullible they amaze me....

" My boyfriend says its just fat....But he also told me I'm too young to be pregnant like I'm not ready  so....I'm taking birth control pills to get rid of the baby if I am pregnant so I won't have the baby."

HAHAH! Artards.

momof2girls2407
by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 3:44 AM

if she doesn't know that birth control does not get RID of a baby, then maybe she should be taking to keep from getting pregnant.  I think it is sad when a 13 year old gets pregnant.. just think of what her mom says about it all..  that girl should also probably just grow up and except the fact that she is not a "kid" anymore.  (just my thought on this, sleep deprivation,ya know)

HaleysMama07
by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 3:45 AM

From the sounds of it she is very young and naive. Hopefully she will find help soon before she ends up hurting both herself and the baby. I wouldn't judge her too harshly from what you said it seems like she doesn't fully understand what she is doing.

MauiStylinMommy
by Bronze Member on Jul. 4, 2009 at 3:45 AM


Quoting momof2girls2407:

if she doesn't know that birth control does not get RID of a baby, then maybe she should be taking to keep from getting pregnant.  I think it is sad when a 13 year old gets pregnant.. just think of what her mom says about it all..  that girl should also probably just grow up and except the fact that she is not a "kid" anymore.  (just my thought on this, sleep deprivation,ya know)

No no! The mom was there and she just kept nodding her head!! Hello!?

momof2girls2407
by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 3:48 AM


Quoting MauiStylinMommy:


Quoting momof2girls2407:

if she doesn't know that birth control does not get RID of a baby, then maybe she should be taking to keep from getting pregnant.  I think it is sad when a 13 year old gets pregnant.. just think of what her mom says about it all..  that girl should also probably just grow up and except the fact that she is not a "kid" anymore.  (just my thought on this, sleep deprivation,ya know)

No no! The mom was there and she just kept nodding her head!! Hello!?

my bad, i probably read over the part where you said the mom was there.. been a long day

LiSsY0924
by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 3:56 AM

Wow... Maybe she shouldn't have spread her legs if she's that fucking stupid...

brandyluzdavid
by Brandy on Jul. 4, 2009 at 3:56 AM

 that is overly dumb and stupid, i was 16 but i knew what happened and when you start your period you can get prego i started at 7 years old and my mom HAD to give me the talk she didnt go into detail but at 13 i had my first "toy" b/c i was becoming "horny" all the time my mom told me that it was the only thing that could go near that area till i was dead lmao i never used it till after i was married it stayed in the box she gave it to me just in case cuz i talked to her about "that feeling" but oh well some girls are soo dumb now these  days like my sil she told me that if i wore tight pants i wouldnt get to big and i would give birth about 8 mths (MIND YOU SHE HAD MY NEICE AT FULL TURM AND SHE WAS LIKE 3-4 LBS OH WELL, JUST PRAY THAT THE BABY IS OK

AND THAT FUCKING MOM NEEDS TO BE SLAPPED AND TAUGHT A LESSON

crazyaboutmygfs
by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 3:59 AM

I sure hope her mom drags her butt to the OB/GYN office and all three of them have a very serious conversation. BC could be doing damage to the baby, if her mom cared about her or this life inside her she would be taking steps to educate her daughter, no matter the means, its not just one life but two now that could be ruined. Who knows what could happen to that child, medically or emotionally. Its clear that this " child" is not ready  to have a "child".

impunkysmommy
by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 4:01 AM

 WTF?!? Seriously? I dont think I coulda kept my mouth shut. I'm pretty sure that her mother woulds got a piece of my mind and does CPS step in and do anything in a case like that?

brwneyedgirl314
by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 4:06 AM

confused

OMG! All 3 of them (the girl, boyfriend, and her mom) need to be bitched slapped!

slap 

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