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The post about making sure your kids drink is cleaned up at Wal Mart got me thinking...
If you go out to eat, do you clean up any messes you and your family make?
If you go to McDonald's and your 1 year old gets fries all over the floor, do you leave them there or pick them up? Do you throw your trash away or leave it on the table?
Not just fast food either. If you go to Olive Garden and there's plates and food all over the table and/or floor, do you leave it all a mess or at least attempt to clean it up?
DH and I clean it up. If we got for fast food, we throw away our own trash, including what hit the floor.
If we go to a nicer restaurant, we'll pick up anything that may have hit the floor, and put it on the dishes. We also try to make it easier on the staff. We'll collect stuff from the table (napkins, silverware, etc) and put them on the plates as well, rather than leaving stuff laying all over the place.
Just curious what others do...

If I take my daughter out to eat anywhere, I always clean up any mess that she makes. My mom would have my hide if I didn't. She's my child and it's my job to clean up after her. That's just the way I was raised.
It's so funny that you posted this cause just last night I was complaining because I had a table (yes I am a waitress) with 2 kids and they sat there and WATCHED their kid crumble biscuits on the floor. Did they attempt to clean it up? nope! Now they didn't leave a horrible tip so it made it somewhat ok. I don't get pissed if the kids make a mess and the parents leave a nice tip, but its those parents that let their kids do it and leave hardly anything!
When we go out I always stack all my plates with the trash and food in one plate and put all the empty ones under it. I also make sure the bottom plate doesn't have any food on the bottom. I put all the silver ware in a cup with the handles sticking up. LOL I am very anal when I go out to eat. I guess it's the waitress in me
Quoting Melissa0216:I always clean up after ourselves where ever we eat - fast food or fancy restaurant. I pick up food that hit the floor; throw trash away at a fast food joint; and stack all of the plates, utensils, trash into neat piles at a restaurant. I'm rather OCD though, so I can't stand a mess around me...

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i clean up after my kids.....usually its the smallest that make the most mess...but yes i pick up....i have been told by waitresses oh dont worry i will pick up i always tell them well yeah but i would like to at least help pick up what i can if my child makes a horendence mess.....just dont see the big deal..would you like to sit at a table that has nasty fries etc underneath thats how i look at it.....but i guess others may think diffrent...
your like us.... if we drop it it gets picked up.. if we spill it we clean it.. we treat it like our home kinda thing..
Quoting bjarrett:yes, we clean up as much as possible with only having our hands to use! lol.....sometimes, we could use a rag or a broom......and if it's a big mess for us, we will leave a bigger tip.
We pile the trash and dishes up as well.
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