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Is there anyone here that never really wanted kids? POLL

Posted by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 12:36 PM
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Question: Kids....

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Always wanted kids

Never wanted kids

Didn't care either way

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I know a few people IRL that never really wanted kids, but have them and are great parents. I have two and didn't care if I ever had kids, but now that I have them and even though they are BRATS, I wouldn't change it for nothing. LOL, anyone else? Heck, I didnt even think I could have kids.


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mrsmoore02
by Gold Member on Jul. 4, 2009 at 12:43 PM

Well, I never really wanted kids or a husband and now I have both.  I wouldn't trade my family for the world!  When I was younger, all I wanted to do was move to NYC and be a stockbroker on Wall Street.  Things change.  Most of the time, like how my life is now, it's for the better :-)

naughtyprincess
by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 12:48 PM

I wanted kids but not itll I was outta school.... (college)  Ut I wouldnt trade them for the world... Being a mom is way better than anythign i ever wanted outta my life...

two4one
by Ruby Member on Jul. 4, 2009 at 12:50 PM

I've always wanted kids. I have a co-worker who never wanted kids. She now has too and loves her little guys ( I wouldn't go as far as to say she is an awseome parent, but she does care about her kids).

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by Cora Munro on Jul. 4, 2009 at 12:53 PM

We didn't want kids, we have two precious girls now!! We are really happy!

ajswenson
by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 12:54 PM

I swore I was never going to have kids, then I met my husband.  Not sure if it was just him, or the good ol' biological clock, but then I couldn't wait to have them.  They were both planned and very much loved.  Can't imagine life without them now.

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Some people take Valentine's day WAY too seriously. No need to be all mopy. Couples are together 365 days a week. Today is no different.
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by Platinum Member on Jul. 4, 2009 at 12:55 PM

I always wanted tons of babies! Now that I had one I wish they'd tie my tubes. One is enough lol. I love my DD though.

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isra1986
by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 3:06 PM

I never really thought about kids too much.
Then I met DH. From the begining of our marriage, I wanted 4 kids! Now we have our princess, and I think she will be our only :(
I still want 4, but he doesn't!

LuvmySFSGT
by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 3:07 PM

I never wanted kids until I met my husband.

Rainbowbrite639
by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 3:09 PM

I never wanted kids until I met my dh.  Then I did.


SocialAtrocity
by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 3:14 PM

I thought I never wanted kids. Or atleast not until I was in my 30's and was settled down. Well, at 19 I got pregnant. At 21 I really wanted another baby and SO and I had talked about it and decided that we wanted to wait another year and then re-visit that conversation. Well, 2 weeks later he was deployed with FEMA because of the hurricains last year when I called him and told him we would be re-visiting that idea in about 9 months. We were and still are very happy and wouldn't change it for anything. Our family means everything to us. He has even talked about adopting my first DD (from a different relationship). I love my family and couldn't imagine life without them. 

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