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I know a few people IRL that never really wanted kids, but have them and are great parents. I have two and didn't care if I ever had kids, but now that I have them and even though they are BRATS, I wouldn't change it for nothing. LOL, anyone else? Heck, I didnt even think I could have kids.


Well, I never really wanted kids or a husband and now I have both. I wouldn't trade my family for the world! When I was younger, all I wanted to do was move to NYC and be a stockbroker on Wall Street. Things change. Most of the time, like how my life is now, it's for the better :-)
I wanted kids but not itll I was outta school.... (college) Ut I wouldnt trade them for the world... Being a mom is way better than anythign i ever wanted outta my life...
I've always wanted kids. I have a co-worker who never wanted kids. She now has too and loves her little guys ( I wouldn't go as far as to say she is an awseome parent, but she does care about her kids).
We didn't want kids, we have two precious girls now!! We are really happy!
I swore I was never going to have kids, then I met my husband. Not sure if it was just him, or the good ol' biological clock, but then I couldn't wait to have them. They were both planned and very much loved. Can't imagine life without them now.
I always wanted tons of babies! Now that I had one I wish they'd tie my tubes. One is enough lol. I love my DD though.
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"Could a dead, frozen heart break? It felt like mine would"~ Edward, Midnight Sun
I never really thought about kids too much.
Then I met DH. From the begining of our marriage, I wanted 4 kids! Now we have our princess, and I think she will be our only :(
I still want 4, but he doesn't!

I thought I never wanted kids. Or atleast not until I was in my 30's and was settled down. Well, at 19 I got pregnant. At 21 I really wanted another baby and SO and I had talked about it and decided that we wanted to wait another year and then re-visit that conversation. Well, 2 weeks later he was deployed with FEMA because of the hurricains last year when I called him and told him we would be re-visiting that idea in about 9 months. We were and still are very happy and wouldn't change it for anything. Our family means everything to us. He has even talked about adopting my first DD (from a different relationship). I love my family and couldn't imagine life without them.
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