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I know a few people IRL that never really wanted kids, but have them and are great parents. I have two and didn't care if I ever had kids, but now that I have them and even though they are BRATS, I wouldn't change it for nothing. LOL, anyone else? Heck, I didnt even think I could have kids.


Awhe! But mama you produce beautiful babies :]
Quoting luv_my_xiya:
i never wanted kids..and if i get preg again i will be pissed

I didn't want kids or the husband and now im stuck with a son and a husband.. go figure... wouldn't change it for anything love my boys
I am Kritterz a Tattoo Lovin, Married to a Punk Rocker, Pro Legalizing Weed, Co sleeping, Vax my Kid, anti-Obama, Pro Choice, former single mom, had my son too young and wasn't married, non-believer in "god" agnostic,Teach my kids if someone hits you you hit them back former bottle feeding, former powder puff racer, Jersey Girl, Bi Sexual Porn watching Loves sex, Has Epilepsy, , Pro Spanking, ,I raise my kid how i want,your approval isn't needed if you don't like how i think or feel you can stick it in your juice box and suck on it..
My world was changed forever and for the best on 4/28/2002, My heart became whole on 4/11/2007 when i married my Penguin. Loving my Life as Eddie's Mommy and Jerry's Wife

I was thinking the same thing!! Your DD is insanely pretty!!!!
Quoting blsdbyangel07:
Awhe! But mama you produce beautiful babies :]
Quoting luv_my_xiya:
i never wanted kids..and if i get preg again i will be pissed
My plan in HS was to go to college, become super duper good at my career(even though I had zero clue what i wasgoing to do) and then get married and have kids by 27....
Well, I got married at 21, had my son at 27, and got divorced at 28......and that career?? Yeah, jury is still out on that one!!!!
I've been wishing I could have a "do over" lately alot. Just go back to HS and be able to do it over, knowing what I know now, especially in the career department. I actually know what I'd really like to do, but it's too late to do it now. =(
My first husband and I tried for 2 years to have a baby, but it just didn't happen. It was for the best b/c we divorced. I thought I didn't want kids after that. I know have 2 girls with my DH and wouldn't have it any other way.
Neither of us wanted kids, but after we got married it changed. I don't know why. We just talked about it more and decided we were ready and the time was right. I went off the pill 3 months after we got married and I got pregnant 10 months after we got married. We are planning on only having one though. =)

I always wanted kids...and a lot of them! I always told my ex that I wanted 12! Well I have three with my dh now, and two step children, so 5 all together! maybe we will have more, maybe we wont...but I know I wont have 12 now! LOL
My youngest was 4 before I accepted the fact that I had to be a mother. I never wanted kids. I really didn't like babies. I mean I SERIOUSLY do not like babies. Even now I am not one to hand a baby to.
I LOVE my children and step children. However, they are noise makers and I don't like noise. LOL. They love to drive me crazy.
I guess the funniest thing about it all is that even though I never wanted children, my children and stepchildren think I am a terrific mother. They write papers about what a great mother I am all the time.
I don't think it matters what you think as long as you do everything that's right for your child.
BTW I still don't like babies.
i wanted kids after college. but thank god for online colleges! lol
the wierd thing is that, my first 2 girls were condom babies lol
i wanted them but not passionately..im not one of those glowing from the get go type of moms that is obsessed with their kids..i love my son dont get me wrong but i have seen alot of women obsess over them..sometimes it makes me wonder if something is wrong with me but oh well..hubby never wanted any at all but to bad lmao
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