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Am I too boring for my age?

Swt_Mama

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on Jul. 4, 2009 at 7:37 PM

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Hi ladies I am feeling a little depressed because it seems like I am to boring for my age. I am 23 married with 2 kids I dont drink smoke go to clubs dont really like parties I just feel like I m a party pooper when I go around people who do drink and smoke ect. I dont feel like I fit when Im outside my home. I guess Im just a homebody huh? Anyone else kinda in my shoes? Hope I made sense. Happy 4th July ladies!

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  • momofJandS
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 7:40 PM
  • Wow, I thought I was bad.  I am 34 with 2 kids and I am boring.  If you need a friend to talk to check out my page.

  • OGB0113
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 7:42 PM
  • I feel the exact same way! I don't drink or smoke and also like being at home more than going out. Sometimes I will make myself go out even I don't really want to and usually end up having fun. Sometimes you just have to bite the bullet!

  • lilberber
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 7:43 PM
  • i am 23 as well i do not smoke at all but i do go out to clubs on special occasions like celebrating a birthday and stuff like that! i spend most of my day doing homework thou!

  • anetrnlov
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 7:44 PM
  • I have 3 kids, I will be 29 in 19 days and I am completely boring.  I drink on occasion but I don't get drunk.  A party for me is a pit of Ben and Jerry's, curled up on the couch with hubby watching a movie.


  • prego7386
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 7:45 PM
  • i just turned 23 yesterday and for the most part i am the same..i enjoy "get togethers"; but not parties..i drink but not to get wasted i dont smoke i dont have the cops called ot my house for crazy argument between hubby and me , we very rarely have disagreements..i wouldnt say i am boring i am more mature for my age.....a guy i used to date joined the marines and hubby and i met up with him and a girl he was dating he and her were dancing around being really goofy and i told them i wasn't doing that crap...he told me ";you ned to stop hanging out with older people and act your age..your boring" (my hubby is 31 tomorrow).im not boring im just not an idiot that wants to roll around MacDonald's or dance randomly in the mall! lol

  • fallnangel93
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 7:45 PM
  • Aww Im the same way!! Well I did smoke up until a few weeks ago, but other then that, I am a complete homebody! I feel like I grew up WAY before most of my friends, and I like it that way, but now I cant be around them! And yes, I feel like an outsider when Im not at home too! Oh I am 26 btw!


  • MarineWifey0708
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 7:46 PM
  • im the same way!! im 21 with a1 yr old. dont drink dont smoke dont go out none of that wow.... nice to know we arent the only ones

    Lilypie - Personal pictureLilypie
  • Hybrid
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 7:47 PM
  • I am right there with you. I don't do much and when my friends invite me out I tend to make up excuses. I don't smoke either, when I go out I may drink but it is never in excess maybe a beer or two. I enjoy being a home body, I enjoy the time I spend with my husband and kids.

    I know quite a few women our age that have husbands and kids but still go out drinking and partying every weekend. I often wonder about them, why they feel the need to go out EVERY single weekend. I don't see the point, I have all I need at home. Two crazy toddlers for entertainment, one sexy husband for lovin' and an unlimited juice bar... Life doesn't get any better then that.

    Cheer up, you're not a boring woman. You're a mom and what is more cool then that?


  • starrsun
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 7:50 PM

  • Quoting Swt_Mama:

    Hi ladies I am feeling a little depressed because it seems like I am to boring for my age. I am 23 married with 2 kids I dont drink smoke go to clubs dont really like parties I just feel like I m a party pooper when I go around people who do drink and smoke ect. I dont feel like I fit when Im outside my home. I guess Im just a homebody huh? Anyone else kinda in my shoes? Hope I made sense. Happy 4th July ladies!

    That is not boring,sweetie,that is awesome for your age! True maturity,imo. And I'm not trying to diss anyone either,i swear,lmao!

  • Swt_Mama
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 7:51 PM
  • Aww it nice to know Im not the only one lol. I feel ya on the Ben and Jerrys.I feel like grocery shopping is like my clubbing lol.

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