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Am I too boring for my age?

Swt_Mama

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on Jul. 4, 2009 at 7:37 PM

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Hi ladies I am feeling a little depressed because it seems like I am to boring for my age. I am 23 married with 2 kids I dont drink smoke go to clubs dont really like parties I just feel like I m a party pooper when I go around people who do drink and smoke ect. I dont feel like I fit when Im outside my home. I guess Im just a homebody huh? Anyone else kinda in my shoes? Hope I made sense. Happy 4th July ladies!

Written by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 7:37 PM

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  • anetrnlov
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 7:54 PM
  • I love this!  It reminds of the Lisa Frank Stationary....I use to love that stuff.


  • travswifey
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 7:54 PM
  • I'm 37 so I could be boring, cuz of my age, but when my hubs is home [he's 24], we stay at home and drink, we do have parties, well get together's, but other than that we stay at home and entertain eachother. lol

    I want to be your favorite hello
                  and your hardest goodbye.

    Jennifer & Travis 8-2-8

  • Swt_Mama
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 7:56 PM
  • Thanks thats how I feel to a tee! Like there is a bridal shower I am invited to in August and I dont know if I really want to go.

    Quoting Hybrid:

    I am right there with you. I don't do much and when my friends invite me out I tend to make up excuses. I don't smoke either, when I go out I may drink but it is never in excess maybe a beer or two. I enjoy being a home body, I enjoy the time I spend with my husband and kids.

    I know quite a few women our age that have husbands and kids but still go out drinking and partying every weekend. I often wonder about them, why they feel the need to go out EVERY single weekend. I don't see the point, I have all I need at home. Two crazy toddlers for entertainment, one sexy husband for lovin' and an unlimited juice bar... Life doesn't get any better then that.

    Cheer up, you're not a boring woman. You're a mom and what is more cool then that?


  • isra1986
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 7:59 PM
  • Yep. I am 23 also. Married almost 4 years, 1 baby. I never went to a club in my life. Never went to a party. Absolutly no intrest in that lifestyle!
    It doesn't make us boring!

  • Swt_Mama
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 7:59 PM
  • I sure will thanks

    Quoting momofJandS:

    Wow, I thought I was bad.  I am 34 with 2 kids and I am boring.  If you need a friend to talk to check out my page.


  • belleandelismom
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 8:01 PM
  • wow OP, you just described me! LOL and happy 4th to you as well!

    Mommy of 2 great kids and wife of the best husband ever!!!

  • susie132
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 8:06 PM
  • I am the exact same way. I am 21 almost 22. Don't Drink or smoke or go out and party. My husband and I are just total homebodies.  I would rather stay home and play with my 18 month old than to go out and party.

  • Swt_Mama
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 8:10 PM
  • yeah me and my hubby are homebodies too. Ive been called grandma for the wway I am and that Im going to have a mid life crisis early lol Whateva

    Quoting susie132:

    I am the exact same way. I am 21 almost 22. Don't Drink or smoke or go out and party. My husband and I are just total homebodies.  I would rather stay home and play with my 18 month old than to go out and party.


  • Bradsmommy22
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 8:14 PM
  • I'm 23 also with 2 kids, and I'm super duper boring! I go to work, school and straight home. My friends wanted me to go out tonight and i declined it just sounded alot better to be home with my boys doing fireworks. Plus saves me a headache! lol

  • jill.a.k.a.mom
  • by on Jul. 4, 2009 at 8:16 PM
  • I'm a homebody, and I love it. My SO is a musician, so every once in a while I'll go see him play, or we'll go see another band, but that's only like a couple of times a year. I'm usually the one that offers to babysit on days like today when most people find it another excuse to go out and drink. He's a homebody too though. When he plays, he's home right afterwards. That's basically like "work". Just fun work. Everything I need is right here, and at Wal- Mart. lol

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