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Hi ladies I am feeling a little depressed because it seems like I am to boring for my age. I am 23 married with 2 kids I dont drink smoke go to clubs dont really like parties I just feel like I m a party pooper when I go around people who do drink and smoke ect. I dont feel like I fit when Im outside my home. I guess Im just a homebody huh? Anyone else kinda in my shoes? Hope I made sense. Happy 4th July ladies!

I love this! It reminds of the Lisa Frank Stationary....I use to love that stuff.

I'm 37 so I could be boring, cuz of my age, but when my hubs is home [he's 24], we stay at home and drink, we do have parties, well get together's, but other than that we stay at home and entertain eachother. lol

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Thanks thats how I feel to a tee! Like there is a bridal shower I am invited to in August and I dont know if I really want to go.
Quoting Hybrid:
I am right there with you. I don't do much and when my friends invite me out I tend to make up excuses. I don't smoke either, when I go out I may drink but it is never in excess maybe a beer or two. I enjoy being a home body, I enjoy the time I spend with my husband and kids.
I know quite a few women our age that have husbands and kids but still go out drinking and partying every weekend. I often wonder about them, why they feel the need to go out EVERY single weekend. I don't see the point, I have all I need at home. Two crazy toddlers for entertainment, one sexy husband for lovin' and an unlimited juice bar... Life doesn't get any better then that.
Cheer up, you're not a boring woman. You're a mom and what is more cool then that?
Yep. I am 23 also. Married almost 4 years, 1 baby. I never went to a club in my life. Never went to a party. Absolutly no intrest in that lifestyle!
It doesn't make us boring!

I sure will thanks
Quoting momofJandS:
Wow, I thought I was bad. I am 34 with 2 kids and I am boring. If you need a friend to talk to check out my page.
wow OP, you just described me! LOL and happy 4th to you as well!
Mommy of 2 great kids and wife of the best husband ever!!!
I am the exact same way. I am 21 almost 22. Don't Drink or smoke or go out and party. My husband and I are just total homebodies. I would rather stay home and play with my 18 month old than to go out and party.
yeah me and my hubby are homebodies too. Ive been called grandma for the wway I am and that Im going to have a mid life crisis early lol Whateva
Quoting susie132:
I am the exact same way. I am 21 almost 22. Don't Drink or smoke or go out and party. My husband and I are just total homebodies. I would rather stay home and play with my 18 month old than to go out and party.

I'm a homebody, and I love it. My SO is a musician, so every once in a while I'll go see him play, or we'll go see another band, but that's only like a couple of times a year. I'm usually the one that offers to babysit on days like today when most people find it another excuse to go out and drink. He's a homebody too though. When he plays, he's home right afterwards. That's basically like "work". Just fun work. Everything I need is right here, and at Wal- Mart. lol
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