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Hi ladies I am feeling a little depressed because it seems like I am to boring for my age. I am 23 married with 2 kids I dont drink smoke go to clubs dont really like parties I just feel like I m a party pooper when I go around people who do drink and smoke ect. I dont feel like I fit when Im outside my home. I guess Im just a homebody huh? Anyone else kinda in my shoes? Hope I made sense. Happy 4th July ladies!
Well I never was a drinker or a partier. Now I am a 29 yr old SAHM of 4. My husband & I dont drink,smoke or party. Our idea of fun is going bowling,to the movies,or to the park.We go as a family.We even try to have friends over as much as we can,we order pizza and play the Wii or just watch a movie. I sort of look at it like I have kids and I wouldnt have someone watch them so I could go party and I would never do anything while my kids were home to impair my decision making. Dont get me wrong Im not bashing people who drink,as long as its done responsibly. I guess Im a homebody too !

i'm almost 32 so i'm old!i never did the bar /club thing .it just wasnt for me i went once or twice with my sisters and by midnight i was falling asleep and ready to go home .i was always told that i dont know how to have fun .i have lots of fun with my husband and kids ,like today we went swimming and bbqed and later we're doing fireworks with our kids .we were invited to a few no kids allowed partys but i'd rather be at home with my kids .

I am 23 years old and even before I was expecting I rarely did drink...when I was 18 an 19 though that was a different story... I smoke pot, drank, popped pills...but yeah now I am VERY boring!
I felt horrible because I missed my dear friends bridal shower but I wasn't up for the festivities at all. It just wasn't something that I wanted to do, at all.
Quoting Swt_Mama:
Thanks thats how I feel to a tee! Like there is a bridal shower I am invited to in August and I dont know if I really want to go.
Quoting Hybrid:
I am right there with you. I don't do much and when my friends invite me out I tend to make up excuses. I don't smoke either, when I go out I may drink but it is never in excess maybe a beer or two. I enjoy being a home body, I enjoy the time I spend with my husband and kids.
I know quite a few women our age that have husbands and kids but still go out drinking and partying every weekend. I often wonder about them, why they feel the need to go out EVERY single weekend. I don't see the point, I have all I need at home. Two crazy toddlers for entertainment, one sexy husband for lovin' and an unlimited juice bar... Life doesn't get any better then that.
Cheer up, you're not a boring woman. You're a mom and what is more cool then that?

I wouldn't call you boring for your age, your a mom. A mom's life is never boring!! If you enjoy being home instead of out partying then good for you. Trust me, my 15 yr old likes to tell me I don't have a life, but I've been there, done that & don't want to go back. It was more exhausting than being a mom! lol You can check out my page anytime and we can be boring together!
Homebody here too! Don't feel bad, there are a LOT worse things you could be doing! lol I'm 25, 1 daughter and I'd rather be here than anywhere else on my free time! Just how I feel.
I feel like you just described me lol, I'm the exact same way! I'm 24 yrs. old, been married for 6 yrs. and have 3 boys!
I'm 22 going on 23 and I'm the same. It's not that we're boring we're just into different things than most people our age. Even before I had my DD I didn't smoke, drink, or go to clubs. I'll occasionally go to parties but if they become too rowdy with drunkards than I'm out.
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