Do you trust your significant other to go out with his friends and drink without you?
I always have.. the only reason I call and check up on him every now and then is for
1.) To make sure he's okay. (I'm a big worrier)
&
2.) To ask him if there are any girls trying to hit on him.
I never worry that he's out flirting or trying to hook up with anyone, but I do get aggravated about those scandalous girls out there that will continue to try to flirt with him after he tells them he's taken. He's out tonight, and I've called him already..lol. He's out at a friends house drinking with some other people. .He says there's only a few girls. To me my fiance is very good looking and I'm not a jealous person but I just can't stand to think that other girls might be trying to talk to him.. .I could show up to show them all that he is taken and mine..lol.. but I don't feel like going out tonight, and plus I'm pregnant, so no drinking for me... Anyways.. .anyone else worry about the girls rather then their SO when he goes out?
My husband hates going out and drinking (in fact, I honestly can't remember the last time he has. It's been over 3 years, definitely) so I don't really have that problem but when he does go out with his friends I definitely trust him. He calls to check in on me and the kids while he's out, and so I know he's ok, and as long as he does that I'm fine.
I love that my fiance has finally started being okay with going without me. He use to get upset when I'd tell him, that I just wanted to stay home when he goes out.. I need my nights alone once in awhile.
Quoting KareemsMami:
I trust him, I'd just rather be with him. How dare he drink without me!
I trust my husband, but I would rather know the people he is drinking with rather than have no clue who they are. Otherwise, then I do get a little nervous, not that he would do anything, but that other women may try and hit on him, but that's like a self consious issue.
Tonya





- alaiynasmommy
on Jul. 11, 2009 at 1:30 AM