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What do you ladies think, am I wrong?(PIOG)

Posted by on Sep. 15, 2007 at 10:04 PM
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As some of you know i'm in a long distance relationship. Ok with that said. Here is the situation. My bf works full time and goes to school full time. Right now i'm on bed rest and i had to drop out of school. There is nothing I can do except chat on cafe mom (which i love by the way), eat, or read. I get really really irritated because he still gets to do everything. Everytime he calls me he's at the movies or bowling or playing bingo or just doing all the things that i wish i could do. It makes me angry! Is it wrong for me to want him to just get off work and come sit on the phone with me sometime? I mean I feel really alone and that's the only way he can really support me is just by talking to me because he can't be here. But then I feel bad if i talk to him about it. Because i feel like i'm nagging. I don't want to sound like a brat but this is really annoying to me......i'm not used to not doing ANYTHING AT ALL. And the fact that he still can just pisses me off!

Pregnant,nerdy,loving,goofy,dorky ol' me.

Posted by on Sep. 15, 2007 at 10:04 PM
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Atarismommy
by on Sep. 15, 2007 at 10:09 PM
I dont think its wrong.. its not like your telling him he cant do any of that fun stuff.. you just want his attention when your miserable and not able to have fun yourself! I've had to yell at my husband to stop playing pokemon and pay attention to me.. its got to be harder when your bf is so far away. Talk to him and tell him that you dont want to seem unreasonable but you'd like for him to take the time to talk to you when your miserable. Good luck.


orcamom
by on Sep. 15, 2007 at 10:10 PM
I can kind of relate to your story  when I was 7 weeks pg with 1st child I was in a car wreck and I ended up shattering my right leg so I for the most part had to do nothing but lay in bed.  Now my hubby and lived together but I was jealous that he got to go out to work and when he would come home he would sit in a completely different room from me so I felt so alone.  What I did was just explained my feelings so he would understand how difficult it is to really be force to sit at home.

Good Luck it will get better

  Sibling Love


alwaysaims
by on Sep. 15, 2007 at 10:11 PM
Im sorry.And no I dont think it is wrong for you to want him to sit and talk to you sometimes.Just tell him how you feel.You shouldnt have to go through this alone.We are here to talk to you but its not the same.Good luck I hope it works out for you.
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