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Please help, I could use some advise!

Posted by on Jul. 28, 2009 at 4:13 PM
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Me and my boyfriend have 1 child together, and he has a son from a pervious relationship. He is saying he wants another child. But I don't know if I do or not, I'm still young(and so is he) so I have time to have more kids in the future. I am already like a mom to two kids(Joaquin's mom isnt in his life) and I already feel a little overwhelmed, and I am still going to school(well when school starts in the fall) and I plan on going to college(onlinie college) and I just don't know if I want another child right now. I am trying to tell Jason,but he isn't really listening. What should I do? What should I say?

Thank you in advance for the help!

by on Jul. 28, 2009 at 4:13 PM
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justinejoy
by on Jul. 28, 2009 at 4:24 PM

Get on birth control, keep taking it daily and tell him the time will come in the future for more children.   If he respects you, he will respect that you want to finish school and college and that you are feeling a little over whelmed already with two.  Don't just make him happy and have another child :)

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bettiepage82
by on Jul. 28, 2009 at 4:32 PM

I would go to school first.  As you know having children takes up a lot of your time and adding another right now would put a lot of your things on the back burner.  If he can't understand or won't understand then he's not considering your feelings and dreams.  Be blunt with him.  Tell him how you really feel. In the end it is your body not his.

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