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I am so firetruckin' PISSED. (naughty un-mommy language. LOTS OF IT) *WARNING* *EDIT WITH ADDED INFO*

Posted by on Aug. 25, 2009 at 11:25 AM
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My BIL, is a asshole of epic proportions. That little fucker can go to hell. I am now officially DONE with him, and when my husband hears what he did he will be too. Let me start at the beginning.....


We went on a family vacation in June to visit my in-laws because they live out of state. This 19 year old little fucking smart ass completely ruined our trip. He was constantly undermining me and my husbands parenting. He was constantly saying little rude remarks about us, ect ect. He thinks he is high and mighty because he worked for the summer as a day camp counselor, and he is still in college when both me and my husband dropped out. He is also the youth group counselor in his church so of course the thinks this makes him think he is always right and he knows more than we do about our kids. He refused to call our kids by their names. He calls Alexandra, Zandie. WTF? SERIOUSLY??? (no offense to anyone) but when I hear that name I instantly think "CENTER STAGE, 3 NIGHTS ONLY.....The ENCHANTING ZAAAAAAAAANDIE!!" That is NOT how I want to think when it involves my BABY. Anyways, we ended up leaving early from our vacation because of this little fucker. Seriously....he didn't always used to be such a dick.


Now, we are having problems with Allie (Alexandra) and we had taken her to a children's hospital to see a specialist in development. She has been diagnosed with GDD and she is being tested for Fragile X. The specialist has a strong feeling about the latter. She is also going to see an Audiologist next month, and she will be seeing a Geneticist. All of these specialists where referred for her. I had nothing to do with them. But I am sure as hell going to take her, because all these doctors are looking out for her best interest. My baby does not have genetics on her side.  Both sides of my family and my husbands have mental health problems along with cancer, and mental handicaps. So when my 12mo old is progressing at a 4mo old level, you bet your sweet fucking ass, I'm not going to just watch it happen. Allie is now running 102 fever and I'm a hypochondriac again for trying to keep her in bed. This little boy needs to get of his fucking high horse and shut the fuck up before I drive 400 miles to do it for him. Because if he lived any closer, I would probably want to re-arrange his smart ass little face.

Thanks for listening to my rant, I just honestly am starting to hate this fucking KID. He is NOT better equipped to raise MY FUCKING KIDS than he is. So what I didn't finish college? And SO FUCKING WHAT if I am not a youth group pastor. I AM THE MOTHER. I KNOW WHAT IS BEST.  And if he doesn't get that, then fuck him.


EDIT:::: I was so mad when I typed this, that I forgot to add what he did. LOL! He told me that I was a hypochondriac for taking my DD to specialists and that I needed to be shot for it.


by on Aug. 25, 2009 at 11:25 AM
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iheartmyshaman
by on Aug. 25, 2009 at 11:27 AM

PREACH IT, MAMA!

SunshineSmiles
by on Aug. 25, 2009 at 11:28 AM

YEA! Fuck him! :D

USMCBride08
by on Aug. 25, 2009 at 11:30 AM

wait... what did he do wrong this time? Im sorry, just confused... but personally I wouldnt be that upset he gave her a nickname, my mom calls my son Toady all the time because of his webbed toes... annoyed, yes, but not angry..


proud 20 year old mommy to the love of my life Wyatt, born 01.08.09 and totally in love to my Marine Patrick since 01.10.08


 


desi_dylan_bri
by on Aug. 25, 2009 at 11:30 AM

wow, sorry for what you are going through with your daughter. just ignore that kid. one day he will have his own kids and he will know what it feels like to have other people try and interfere with the way he raises them. until then just focus on you on yours. good luck mama. and no, college has absolutely nothing to do with how good of a mommy you are. hugs.

MOM22QTS
by on Aug. 25, 2009 at 11:32 AM


Quoting USMCBride08:

wait... what did he do wrong this time? Im sorry, just confused... but personally I wouldnt be that upset he gave her a nickname, my mom calls my son Toady all the time because of his webbed toes... annoyed, yes, but not angry..


im confused too..im not really sure what he did either.

Rodie
by on Aug. 25, 2009 at 11:33 AM

I still fail to see what he did THIS TIME (other than calling you a hypochondriac) that is really that bad. He's 19. A kid still. He'll grow up soon enough with children of his own. Never write off family.  

kaitlynsmommy31
by on Aug. 25, 2009 at 11:34 AM

lol, I'm sorry I was just so mad I forgot to add that part. He called my a hypochondriac because I was taking my DD to specialists and he said I needed to be shot.

Quoting USMCBride08:

wait... what did he do wrong this time? Im sorry, just confused... but personally I wouldnt be that upset he gave her a nickname, my mom calls my son Toady all the time because of his webbed toes... annoyed, yes, but not angry..



USMCBride08
by on Aug. 25, 2009 at 11:35 AM


Quoting kaitlynsmommy31:

lol, I'm sorry I was just so mad I forgot to add that part. He called my a hypochondriac because I was taking my DD to specialists and he said I needed to be shot.

Quoting USMCBride08:

wait... what did he do wrong this time? Im sorry, just confused... but personally I wouldnt be that upset he gave her a nickname, my mom calls my son Toady all the time because of his webbed toes... annoyed, yes, but not angry..

 

oh id be pissed that he said you needed to be shot!!!! But im called a hypochondriac all the time, and my reply is "yes, well i care enough about my child to make sure nothing is wrong with her..."


proud 20 year old mommy to the love of my life Wyatt, born 01.08.09 and totally in love to my Marine Patrick since 01.10.08


 


MOM22QTS
by on Aug. 25, 2009 at 11:36 AM


Quoting kaitlynsmommy31:

lol, I'm sorry I was just so mad I forgot to add that part. He called my a hypochondriac because I was taking my DD to specialists and he said I needed to be shot.

Quoting USMCBride08:

wait... what did he do wrong this time? Im sorry, just confused... but personally I wouldnt be that upset he gave her a nickname, my mom calls my son Toady all the time because of his webbed toes... annoyed, yes, but not angry..

 

well he is 19 years old and obviously needs to grow up. You just have to be more mature than he is.

Although what he said was unecessary and hurtful, its really coming from a mouth of a child and you shouldnt let it get to you.

Deaner
by on Aug. 25, 2009 at 11:37 AM

I would be pissed too! You gotta love those who do not have any kids but are more than willing to hand out advice just because they spent some time around one...YEAH RIGHT I'm so sure he really know what he is talking about LOL but it's been my experience that I could either laugh at their "knowledge" or cry,. And it sounds like you have more than enough to deal with   without  someone undermining you. Please keep us updated on your baby I hope everything comes to light for you and your doing a great job standing up for your baby.

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