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Posted by on Aug. 25, 2009 at 11:14 PM
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 Why do ppl feel the need to ask me if both my kids have the same father? I just recently just started talking to 2 ppl that I havent talked to since my son was a baby and when they found out that I had another they BOTH asked me if they have the same father....I dont get it?

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mamaleah17
by on Aug. 25, 2009 at 11:18 PM

Good question. I have had people ask me that, too. And yes, they are all from the same man.

FaerieMommie23
by on Aug. 25, 2009 at 11:19 PM

cuz people are nosey and need to feel better about themselves.


TJP_ASP_MOMMY
by on Aug. 25, 2009 at 11:19 PM

Same here, I dont get it. It actually is very insulting.

Quoting mamaleah17:

Good question. I have had people ask me that, too. And yes, they are all from the same man.


<3 Aubri Stacia & Tyler Joseph <3


HeatherMae55
by on Aug. 25, 2009 at 11:20 PM

Because some people are stupid. 

I grew up being told my complete strangers that my Dad wasn't mine, and that my brother wasn't my brother.  We look nothing alike, but genetics are weird.

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JulyBabies
by Platinum Member on Aug. 25, 2009 at 11:21 PM

It's 2009...it's no longer unusual for people to have children with two (or more) different men.

cillaluvsmali
by on Aug. 25, 2009 at 11:21 PM

are you married? if not, then maybe that's why. If you are, then thats just rude

 




eddysmommy
by on Aug. 25, 2009 at 11:21 PM

sounds like something i would ask my friend is she got pregnant again.  she has been around the block a few times  if you know what i mean

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mamaleah17
by on Aug. 25, 2009 at 11:21 PM

I am 26, but look a little younger than that, or so I've been told. I think that must have something to do with it. Say if I was older, maybe it wouldn't happen. Who knows?

Quoting TJP_ASP_MOMMY:

Same here, I dont get it. It actually is very insulting.

Quoting mamaleah17:

Good question. I have had people ask me that, too. And yes, they are all from the same man.



BewitchedKisses
by Silver Member on Aug. 25, 2009 at 11:22 PM

My six year old is half Filipino. My eight month old is not. People constantly ask me if my boys have the same father. I usually end up wanting to punch the person that asks. My boys don't even look alike. lol

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This is my youngest son:



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wells75904
by on Aug. 25, 2009 at 11:22 PM

I hate it when people do that! Its NONE OF THEIR BUSINESS!


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