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Feeling Uncomfortable about Porn

Posted by on Sep. 7, 2009 at 1:26 AM
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my dh has been pressuring me to allow porn while we are having (or before having) sex. I dont feel comfortable about it but he claims that the act turns him on, not the actual naked girl. what do you think?

by on Sep. 7, 2009 at 1:26 AM
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TJP_ASP_MOMMY
by on Sep. 7, 2009 at 1:27 AM

My SO says the same thing, but I dont care. I don't allow it during sex. 

<3 Aubri Stacia & Tyler Joseph <3


rachel17x
by on Sep. 7, 2009 at 1:28 AM

do you allow it at all? or just during sex?

Quoting TJP_ASP_MOMMY:

My SO says the same thing, but I dont care. I don't allow it during sex. 


TJP_ASP_MOMMY
by on Sep. 7, 2009 at 1:31 AM

Well as long as I dont need to watch it doesnt bother me. If he does it bothers me a little but I honestly dont care all that much about it. Im just a little self conscience about my body to watch a hot girl doing all the things that my SO would like done to him.

Quoting rachel17x:

do you allow it at all? or just during sex?

Quoting TJP_ASP_MOMMY:

My SO says the same thing, but I dont care. I don't allow it during sex. 

 


<3 Aubri Stacia & Tyler Joseph <3


missjla
by on Sep. 7, 2009 at 1:32 AM

he's letting you in on a fantasy. unless you absolutely cant stand the thought of it.. why not try it??

nemiller
by on Sep. 7, 2009 at 1:32 AM

if it's not the actual girl, then why don't you make your own video instead?  and in any case, there shouldn't be "pressuring" going on.  if you don't want to do something, he needs to respect that.


 

volvowife
by on Sep. 7, 2009 at 1:33 AM

Explain to him why you are not comfortable. 

mommytohuddy
by on Sep. 7, 2009 at 1:33 AM

I don't have anything against porn, but I don't really want to be watching it while we are having sex. I want all the attention haha. We have watched it before sex..but never during.

queenamy
by on Sep. 7, 2009 at 1:34 AM

So exactly why do you feel uncomfurtable?


For my SO and I. we BOTH enjoy it doing it while watching porn!

But we even like swinging better lol


OrganicLuv

Aislinn
by on Sep. 7, 2009 at 1:35 AM

 If you are uncomfortable, do not do it. However, maybe you could try it just once to shut him up? lol

Cisri1974
by on Sep. 7, 2009 at 1:36 AM

The best BJ DF ever received was when I put in a porn flick, made him sit on the couch, told him to watch it, and went to town.  He STILL talks about that night and how amazingly cool it was of me to do that.  hehehe

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