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my 14 y/o is sending nude pics of herself from her phone

Posted by on Sep. 7, 2009 at 12:39 PM
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So B/M calls today to tell us that while she was over there, my S/D got caught with nude pics of herself and also of some boy on he phone. He was smart enough to take them from the neck down, but she has her face in all of her pics. She has never given me any indication that she was doing anything like this and she talks to me about everything.... i thought. So what do we do? She is grounded from everything except volleyball and i think she should be grounded from that too, but my D/H wont do that... I really don't think yelling is going to do any good, but i just don't know how to handle this. Help, please

by on Sep. 7, 2009 at 12:39 PM
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alli1204
by Silver Member on Sep. 7, 2009 at 12:41 PM

I'd take the phone away for a LONG time.

 

butterflyblu
by on Sep. 7, 2009 at 12:41 PM

Time to take away the phone?

                      
 


           

nebcutie
by Gold Member on Sep. 7, 2009 at 12:41 PM

I would not let her have a cell anymore. Not just be grounded from it but she should not get it back!

XallieXkissesX
by on Sep. 7, 2009 at 12:42 PM


Quoting butterflyblu:

Time to take away the phone?

Like i said shes groundede from everyhting... computer, phone, tv.... everything

A.J.s_mommy
by Ruby Member on Sep. 7, 2009 at 12:43 PM

I agree with this.  I must say i agree with your DH...dont take volleyball away...but maybe i am a softie.

Quoting butterflyblu:

Time to take away the phone?


UxorQuodMatris
by on Sep. 7, 2009 at 12:43 PM

Time to show her the articles of teens charged with child porn for "sexting". Doubt she'd want to be a registered sex offender for this.

                              
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crowned_mom
by on Sep. 7, 2009 at 12:43 PM

yep.

Quoting nebcutie:

I would not let her have a cell anymore. Not just be grounded from it but she should not get it back!


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nebcutie
by Gold Member on Sep. 7, 2009 at 12:43 PM

Also maybe find a group in your area of girls that have gone threw the same thing or have had bad things happen as a result from it so she can see what it can do to her life.

KokoJones
by on Sep. 7, 2009 at 12:43 PM

yikes, i am not even sure how i would handle this. she definately needs to talk to you about what is going on, and you need to let her know what you are feeling and thinking. definately confiscate that cell for a long long time

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CSRodriguez
by on Sep. 7, 2009 at 12:44 PM

you need to get the phone and remove her access to  anything that can  do this

she is breaking a  serious law   " distributing  Porn"  child porn in fact

and any guy who  has it  on his phone can get in trouble too

I  have hate to sound extreme but some kids have  had their whole future  effected by this  behavior 

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