my pregnancy for me was a nightmare, i had an incompatant cervix, they didnt discover it until week 23 so i could not have a cerclage, my ob put me on strict bedrest and kept telling me my baby was probably going to come at any time and the chances of survival were not good. the farther along i got was all a miracle. i ended up making it to week 36 then had an awful time pushing him out cuz the cord had wrapped around his neck twice. (which i now joke and say that was the only thing holding him in as long as he was) but my son was born problem free, and i feel so blessed. my dh and i do want to have another baby, and we always wanted them close in age cuz i am 8 and 5 years younger than my bros and have never been close with them. but i am terrified of the pregnancy especially knowing i cant do the bed rest the same as before with my little guy running around. anyone gone through the same thing. got any advice.

MOTHER TO MADDOX SYLAR
I think you should go for it since this time you will be more prepared and you can your stitch since you all will know going in your issues. I'm sure your husband will be supportive of you and maybe you have family and friends who will lend a hand if the need arises. A good friend of mine had this same issue and the stitch was all she needed she was able to work and take care of her 11/2 yr old. Good Luck!!
Remember... Every pregnancy is different.
With my DD I was like you. A ton of problems.
But with my DS it was smooth sailing. The only problem I had with him was I ate too much.
Good luck momma
In this time of sorrow, my thoughts and those of my family, are for Ashley and her daughter. Our deepest sympathies to her on the loss of her husband Shane, May God hold her close and carry her through this time and may her daughter remember sunshine and happiness in the memories of her father. 
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- queeniceone
on Sep. 23, 2009 at 7:35 AM